I'm asking more for DH He's going to be doing mornings and daycare drop-off alone (I work very early hours) and i'm doing pick-up. I don't know if he realizes how tough it is to shower, eat, get dressed etc since our LO is extremely fussy and basically cries whenever she's not sleeping. Babywearing has been our only hope and it's impossible to get ready for work while wearing her. I hear other moms say "Oh i put LO in her swing while I shower..." hahahahahah she screams bloody murder so that has never worked.

How do you manage it?