It'd be pretty hard for me or Mrs. Bee to cheat, I think. We are both busy with the kids and work, and we generally are either in the same room or can see each other on IM. Plus we're just so tired these days.
I guess we could cheat if we really worked at it, but it wouldn't be easy.
Would it be easy for you or your SO to cheat? Logistically speaking, I mean.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
not at all... probably easier for me.
I know my husband's work schedule, and he never really has to work later than his scheduled week. He is SO busy at work that there would be no time, and he spends all weekend with me and LO.
For me, I'm home now 24/7 I guess if i really wanted to I could get my mom to babysit LO for the day haha. But honestly being a SAHM I would have no way to even meet anyone 
but that is obviously not a problem. I adore my dh
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
Yep! Since DH travels it'd be easy.
I know he'd never do anything to jeopardize our relationship and our family.. and I wouldn't do anything either!
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
No, he would have to be having sex with someone at work in the office or else I don't think he would have time. So I guess it is still possible!
eggplant / 11287 posts
It would be so hard for him!
He goes to work at the same time every day and comes home at the same time every day. He works with my dad (he's his boss), works two blocks away from my parents, and eight miles from where we live.
When he comes home, he stays with me until the next morning. If he leaves, we always go together.
It would be bizzarre if he ever came home late from work one day without calling--I would think something is up!
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
When I was traveling, yeah. It would be easy. Without traveling, not really. We know each other's schedules too well and 99% of the time, we don't have to work late.
honeydew / 7968 posts
I think anyone who really wanted to could make it work.... I guess it would be pretty easy for either of us to cheat. He could just say a case came up and he has to go to the OR. I dont ask him for his on call schedule. I'm now a sahm, so technically, would be easy, but not exactly sexying it up right now so lol...
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
No. Unless I wanted LO to be with me while I was cheating because I do have the day without my husband. But that would just be the worst mother ever. He gets home from work early, at 4:30, so he's always around in the evenings.
pear / 1764 posts
No, basically every moment that DH isn't at work he is here spending time with us & I am almost always with LO.
hostess / eggplant / 11068 posts
I suppose it would be possible for hubs to cheat but it would have to be at work, during work hours, and since I know his female coworkers, it would be difficult. Me? Well, unless I wanted to cheat with someone with my LO in tow...Plus, who as time to cheat when I don't have time to eat or sleep??
kiwi / 678 posts
It would probably be easier for him than me. I work and then have my LO whenever I'm not at work. He has LO when I'm at work and then works nights, but he goes out with his friends after work sometimes on the weekend, so he could cheat then and I wouldn't even notice since I'm asleep and don't usually know when he gets home. But I trust him and it's not something I really worry about. And I guess I could theoretically cheat when I go out with my friends sometimes. It just seems like it would take a lot of effort.
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
I mean I guess it would be easy for me now because every day I have about 2.5 hours between when I get out of work and when my husband gets out of work. The thought has never crossed my mind though, and I would doubt it's crossed my husband's. Especially now that I'm pregnant and he knows I spend that time napping every day!! : )
honeydew / 7230 posts
We are pretty much together all the time and we live in a smallish town where everyone knows everyone else's business. So I think it'd be pretty hard to cheat. Also, my husband's job is 97% male so I don't know where he'd even find someone to cheat with!
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
I think it'd be pretty hard. We work pretty much similar hours and are together outside of work. Dh also works at a bank and I work at the HQ building of my company; so neither of us would be able to do anything during work hours either! 
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