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Would you let your kid wear this shirt in public?

By Mamaof2 Aug 13, 2015

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35 comments
  1. Torchwood

    pomelo / 5607 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    I'm curious to see replies on this. I can see arguments for both sides, but I'm inclined to say yes (for an older child).

  2. MrsH

    honeydew / 7667 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    @Mamaof2: nope

  3. Mamaof2

    squash / 13208 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    @Torchwood: he is 7 next month

  4. mediagirl

    hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    Nope. I don't approve of my child saying bad words, I wouldn't approve of her wearing one either.

  5. daniellemybelle

    cantaloupe / 6669 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    No. Not as a kid or a teenager either.

  6. JoyfulKiwi

    nectarine / 2667 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    Not until he was old enough to buy his own clothes and even then I'd limit the places where I'd allow it (not in public with our family, at school, etc)

  7. MCD919

    kiwi / 659 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    No

  8. littlebug

    honeydew / 7504 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    No. Not appropriate for a kid, I think. I'd have trouble with my high schooler wearing it.

  9. Mamaof2

    squash / 13208 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    Thanks all!

    DH bought this shirt on his last work trip - I was like WTF were you thinking!?! DS loves it because it was made from mud (so the tag says) - I told DS he could wear it around the house but that's it!

  10. birdofafeather

    pineapple / 12053 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    Not a fan and probably a no for me for a kid that age especially.

  11. ShootingStar

    coconut / 8472 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    No. Not just because of the allusion to profanity, but as a whole it just seems trashy to me. Sorry. But then I tend to dress my kid in very few graphic tees.

  12. Mrs. Peanut

    apricot / 347 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    Nope. They wouldn't be allowed to swear, so I see no reason for them to wear a shirt with a swear word on it, even if it's censored. The message is the same.

  13. Mrs Green Grass

    pomelo / 5628 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    There are plenty of red dirt shirts that don't have anything to do with violence... I'd get him a different one.

  14. rachiecakes

    coconut / 8279 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    lol my dad would totally get something like this for my son.
    and no, I would not let him wear it - maaaybe to bed

  15. snowjewelz

    wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    Nope, I wouldn't!

  16. T-Mom

    honeydew / 7488 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    No, not for us... my FIL got my DD a shirt from Berkeley saying something like "hella cool" or something and I was like.. uh sorry we won't be wearing this. Not for a 7 yr old...

  17. oliviaoblivia

    pineapple / 12793 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    No.

  18. psw27

    pomelo / 5220 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    Not with the $%*! on it... except maybe to bed. I wouldn't be happy about DH bringing something like that home, even though I get that its just a shirt...

  19. Torchwood

    pomelo / 5607 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    @Mamaof2: Not at 7, no. We plan to be fairly lax about swearing when she's old enough to understand when it's appropriate and when it's not (though we'll limit it to non-sexual and non-abusive to others words, i.e. no f-bombs, no calling someone a b****), but not at 7.

  20. looch

    wonderful pear / 26210 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    What's a red dirt shirt? Is it a reference to anything? Living under a rock over here.

  21. Mamaof2

    squash / 13208 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    @looch: apparently its what makes the shirt red - its soaked in red dirt

  22. Mrs. Pickle

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    No.

  23. catomd00

    grapefruit / 4418 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    No and I wouldn't go out in public with my husband either if he was wearing it!

  24. Alivoo01

    wonderful olive / 19353 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    @looch: @Mamaof2: Oklahoma is known for their red dirt/clay. It's all we have there. It sucks and it stains!

    As for the shirt, I probably wouldn't let him wear it out and about. But since your hubby bought it, like you said, I'd let him wear it as pj or something.

  25. looch

    wonderful pear / 26210 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    @Mamaof2: @Alivoo01: ok, got it.

    Yeah, I'd be fine with it. I have seen worse and while I am generally not a fan of clothing with writing on it, this one doesn't bother me.

  26. Torchwood

    pomelo / 5607 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    @Alivoo01: It's all over GA too. I had one of those shirts (not that exact one, obviously) when I lived there as a kid.

  27. Alivoo01

    wonderful olive / 19353 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    @Torchwood: Good ole red clay!

  28. .twist.

    pineapple / 12802 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    This doesn't bother me. I probably wouldn't let him wear it to school but otherwise I would be fine with it.

  29. Mrs.KMM

    grapefruit / 4355 posts

    Aug 13, 2015

    No - while I curse more than I should, I don't intend to allow my kids to curse (at least not until they're in their upper teens - if not out of my house and on their own).

    @Torchwood: gotta love the GA clay!

  30. Coffee-lover

    apricot / 340 posts

    Aug 14, 2015

    If my daughter wanted to wear this I would have no problem with it. Im not sure what red dirt shirt is, but the pretend cuss word doesnt bother me.

  31. Meowkers

    persimmon / 1364 posts

    Aug 14, 2015

    no. not okay with it for a kid or an adult. Not classy.

  32. Mrs. Lemon-Lime

    wonderful pea / 17279 posts

    Aug 14, 2015

    I'm also in the camp that I'd let him wear the shirt. Perhaps not to school because he may be required to change it, but running errands all day on the weekend would be fine. It's a cool shirt and as a 7 year old he's getting a kick out of the red dirt way more than the faux swear word anyway.

  33. Bubbles

    persimmon / 1328 posts

    Aug 14, 2015

    Probably not to school as I wouldn't want him to get in trouble, but aside from that it wouldn't bother me.

  34. rosegold

    apricot / 428 posts

    Aug 14, 2015

    nope.

  35. Ajsmommy

    pomegranate / 3355 posts

    Aug 14, 2015

    I guess I'm going against the grain here... I would.. I don't see it as overly offensive unless I'm not "getting" it.

    ETA: I grew up on a farm and our barn boots were regularly called sh!t kickers...

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