Would you rather your baby sleep straight through the night, but wake up early, like 7 pm to 5 am, or wake up once or twice but sleep until 8 am?
Trick question-- you don't get a choice!
Would you rather your baby sleep straight through the night, but wake up early, like 7 pm to 5 am, or wake up once or twice but sleep until 8 am?
Trick question-- you don't get a choice!
121 votes
blogger / pomegranate / 3201 posts
I'd rather STTN with an early wakeup because I could always just go to bed earlier to get a full 8 hours, but most days I can't sleep in past 6:30 anyway because I have to work.
pomegranate / 3383 posts
I would be ok with ONE wake up and a later wake up time, but totally not ok with two wake ups! That makes a huge difference!
ETA: I'm also assuming the one wake up would be around 5am anyway (that's when my son's was). I'm not sure if I could handle a wake up between 2-4am though because I always had trouble falling back asleep.
watermelon / 14206 posts
We wake up early, anyways, so the first option would be perfect for us.
squash / 13764 posts
One wake up and a later wake time. Especially if the wake up is at like midnight, and then I can sleep from 12 to 8!!
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
7:00 to 5:00 for sure. We go to bed early in this household!!! 9pm-5am is 8 hours for me!!!
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
I'd rather wake up with him during the night. We still have at least one wake-up half the time now, at 18 months, and I can practically change a diaper in my sleep.
But my answer would probably change once I go back to work and have to get up earlier anyway.
honeydew / 7687 posts
I'd rather have STTN; I don't go to bed until midnight usually so getting woken up around 2 is no bueno. I hate the morning no matter when it starts or how many hours of sleep I've gotten!
nectarine / 2220 posts
My baby doesn't go to bed until 1030 or 11, wakes just for a few minutes at 1:30 and 3:30 and sleeps until 6, eats/plays for a until 7, and then sleeps again until 9ish..
I think I would pick sleeping through but waking up early if they also went to bed early enough that I could also go to bed early.
grapefruit / 4819 posts
Our DD1 slept 12 hour stretches through the night from 2.5 months old, BUT her wake up time was 5:30 every morning. We tried to keep her up later to see if we could push the 12 hours out, but nope, she liked waking at 5:30. I never minded - to get that long stretch of sleep was heavenly and as a result, waking up early wasn't a problem. I'd much rather have that than have to wake up during the night!
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
@Sammyfab: I totally agree. C goes back and forth between one and two wake ups and it makes such a big difference. Last name she woke up at 5, then went back to sleep until after 8, and it was great. So much more well rested than the nights when it's 2 and 5. But I'm a night owl and getting up for the day before 7 is painful.
So I guess I choose the wake up sleep late, but that might be me just trying to see the glass as half full.
honeydew / 7811 posts
Right now he wakes up three times a night and rarely sleeps past 630 am. I would love for him to sleep in! Having an hour or two of freedom in the mornings would be amazing!
pear / 1823 posts
I won the sleep lottery because I have both the crazy early wake up time + the multiple wake ups He's 9 months and I swear STTN is a myth.
grapefruit / 4066 posts
I would def rather have 1 wake up, either in the beginning of night or early morning and sleeping in until 8 rather than STTN and waking at 5. My LO has gone through several early rising periods, so me and 5 am do not get along!
nectarine / 2152 posts
One million times sleeping through the night with an early wake-up...motn wake-ups kill me!
pomegranate / 3393 posts
I'm so used to waking up a handful of times, especially since he just nurses & falls back asleep, so that's my vote. Possibly, I have sleepless-induced Stockholm syndrome, though!
grapefruit / 4903 posts
If it's a quick, nurse-back-to-sleep wakeup, I choose one wakeup and sleeping in a little bit. That way I could either get a little extra sleep or enjoy a shower/coffee alone.
grapefruit / 4903 posts
@mrsbookworm: You poor thing - I've been there. I hope it gets better soon!
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
@rattles: @cmomma17: I never get up before her, no matter what time she wakes up! ONE time u did, after her six month shots she slept 11.5 hours straight and I woke up at 6 am feeling like I slept for a week, so I got up and had coffee before she woke up.
grapefruit / 4903 posts
@Foodnerd81: DD's sleep is weird right now (not complaining because there's a lot of it for once, but it's less predictable) and she slept in until almost 9am this weekend! It was crazy. I woke up, showered, had coffee, read a magazine... I have no idea how long it had been since I woke to something other than crying.
pomegranate / 3768 posts
I picked 1-2 wake up and sleeping in later because that's what's happening with us now. But I can only handle the night wakings if she goes back down easily and quickly!
pineapple / 12053 posts
ha, this was my concern with starting STing last week, since she had dropped her 2 MOTN waking and was just up once and was a late sleeper. but we committed to it, and she's waking up earlier, but luckily, not at 5.
GOLD / pomelo / 5737 posts
I picked sttn. When my lo would wake up randomly in the motn she was UP! Like 2-3 hours in a row.
papaya / 10570 posts
I get one wake up and a sleep in until 8am but that's useless now Im going back to work and I have to wake her at 7!! So I picked the first option!!
honeydew / 7303 posts
Def sttn! I have to wake her up early anyway, and on the weekends dh and I can switch off.
apricot / 469 posts
Sttn without a doubt! I wake up at 5:30 anyway though. I also believe that uninterrupted sleep if possible is better for kids (and parents!)
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
What if your LO sleeps 7:00 - 5:00 and then wakes to eat and goes back to sleep until 8:00? Or am I the person you say STFU to?
(Despite my baby's awesome sleep, I do get up at 4:30 most days to get ready for work - so please don't hate me too much!)
pomelo / 5469 posts
STTN with the early start for the day...but only because I'm sure LO wouldn't mind hanging out on her own in her cot for an extra 30mins or so, so it wouldn't be too early. If she woke at 5am and needed me straight away, I think I would pick the other option
wonderful pear / 26210 posts
As the mother of a child that woke up at 5 am for a year, I'd take a night wakeup over that any day.
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
@Adira: LOL!!!
Another mommy here with a LO that wakes up way too frequently during the night so I'm all for STTN!!
pomelo / 5720 posts
STTN with an early wake up. That's what we have now and it's (semi) working for us. If he does wake up, he's up for hours, so I wouldn't chose that for anything!
GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts
STTN! I often have trouble falling asleep after her wakeup even if her wakeup is short. I'd love to be able to sleep straight through.
pear / 1672 posts
Since this is often me, I took STTN. She's waking up between 5:30 and 6am, but it allows me to spend some solid hours with her before going to work. We don't go in before 6am. I used to hate it, but I look on the bright side. I wish she'd learn to sleep in during the weekend mornings though. I also love that when we put her down for the night, that's it. She's out.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
STTN with an early wake! DS used to do this and it's MUCH easier getting uninterrupted sleep!
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