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Would you take a 3 month old baby out well past their bedtime?

  1. loveisstrange

    pineapple / 12526 posts

    Nope, I wouldn't. We skipped July 4th when C was 3 months for similar reasons, we didn't want her out past her bedtime and we thought the fireworks would scare her.

    We lived and died by her schedule when she was little though, she didn't respond well to change as a baby and a later bedtime meant hysterics and an early wakeup, followed by a cranky butt all the next day. We're just now at the point where keeping her up later doesn't cause a massive meltdown and she does okay.

  2. Cherrybee

    papaya / 10570 posts

    @loveisstrange: Gah! My head's spinning!! Stupid fireworks!!!!

  3. shellio

    pear / 1614 posts

    Like @loveisstrange, we were super consistent about LO's schedule from very early on and it served us well. He did miss naps or bedtime occasionally but it had to be kind of a big deal. He actually did ok when things would change a bit but he did great on his schedule and we figured, why mess with success? I think you should just tell DH to go without you two and have fun.

  4. Rainbow Sprinkles

    eggplant / 11287 posts

    I would go. I tend to be pretty laid back because I have learned that in the end, it always works out. Whenever I'm apprehensive about deviating from her schedule, she always surprises me with her ability to adapt and ends up being a dream toddler (and it was even easier when she was a baby)! So, I say have fun with your friends and go for it. You never know until you try. E will do great!

  5. LemonLong

    pear / 1698 posts

    We took our LO to the fireworks when she was 7 months old. Her normal bedtime is 5 pm, but the fireworks didn't start until 9 pm. We put baby noise cancellation headphones on her and she slept through the whole fireworks show!

  6. Cherrybee

    papaya / 10570 posts

    Update!!

    The Little Bean napped really, really well today so we took her to the firework display. The husband wore her and she fell asleep in the carrier on the way there - it was half an hour before bedtime. She woke up just before the fireworks started and had plenty of smiles for our friends (much to my surprise!) and then she loved the fireworks!! She was fascinated!!!

    We got home and she went to sleep pretty easily (even without her swaddle!!). Bless - I'm looking at her now on the monitor, arms spread wide, fast asleep.... aaaaw!!!



  7. Bookish

    GOLD / cantaloupe / 6581 posts

    @Cherrybee: that's awesome!!!! I'm so excited that y'all got to go have a good time! she's so darn cute.

  8. BabyMats

    nectarine / 2031 posts

    That is so great!! Glad everyone got to enjoy her smiles!! So cute!

  9. cmomma17

    honeydew / 7811 posts

    @Cherrybee: I didn't give you any advice, but she's cute and I'm glad you guys had fun

  10. illumina

    pomelo / 5469 posts

    @Cherrybee: glad to see you had fun!! I've just ordered the Dr Weissbuth book.

  11. Foodnerd81

    wonderful cherry / 21504 posts

    So cute! Love her little snow suit too. So glad it was a success!

  12. ALV91711

    pomelo / 5621 posts

    So cute! Glad you had a good time and went.

  13. googly-eyes

    GOLD / pomelo / 5737 posts

    Worked out perfectly! Glad you guys had a good time!

  14. nana87

    cantaloupe / 6171 posts

    Yay, so glad it worked out!!

  15. OldEnglandMama

    cherry / 212 posts

    @Cherrybee: That's great! I am going to live vicariously through you and your little family. No bonfire night for us here. It was always one of my favourite "celebration" things growing up. I managed to save a pack of sparklers from July, and DH will humour me, but it's pretty pathetic

  16. photojane

    cantaloupe / 6164 posts

    Hurray! Babies are more flexible than we give them credit for.

  17. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    @Cherrybee: that is so fabulous! I'm glad you had fun. Good job, E!

  18. Smurfette

    GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts

    That is great!! She looks so cute in her snow suit.

  19. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    Glad it worked out!

  20. Penny Lane

    nectarine / 2163 posts

    @Cherrybee: woohoo!! her little furry suit is adorable!

  21. autumn865

    persimmon / 1147 posts

    Our LO was pretty high maintenance when she was little (still is actually) so we never messed with bedtime. I was just so afraid to screw with bedtime once we got it down. Do you have family or trusted friends that can watch her and put her to bed? That way it can be a night out for you?

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