My cousin is getting married later this month, across the country. She was originally supposed to get married last year, like so many others. There's no direct flight, so it basically requires a day of traveling each way, with a layover in a COVID hotspot. I already RSVP'd yes, thinking that since I was vaxxed it'd be pretty safe...but now with Delta and breakthrough cases, and my los<12 NOT being vaxxed, I'm second guessing.

Kids and dh were always going to stay home since we aren't comfortable with them flying unvaxxed, plus it's a long way for them to go for a short trip (Thurs-Sun), and with the time change they wouldn't be able to stay awake for the wedding anyway (EST-adjusted kids at an evening MST wedding? no way lol).

What would you do if you were me?