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I believe in being there for friends for their big events... they will never forget it!

Could you do something small after the potluck just the two of you, and then have a larger celebration that other day you mentioned?

@mrbee: Agree with Mr. Bee. BUT-- what anniversary is it? If it is your first, I could see the issue, but anything after that, I would do it another day and just have cake or something when you get home that night.

I agree @mrbee, I would go to the potluck. I would have a nice dinner sometime after, but I've never been a stickler about celebrating birthdays and anniversaries on the actual day. If the celebration is a few days earlier or later, so be it.

I would go to the party and celebrate he anniversary on a later date.

I'd go to the party and maybe pick up a fun dessert and wine to share together afterwards?

I would go to the potluck and schedule the anniversary celebration some other night.

I would go to the party too. When I moved across country my friends and family had a get together for me. It meant a lot. Maybe you could bake a cake or have a special dessert and champagne waiting at home and have a mini anniversary celebration.

I'd go to the party and celebrate later

I would go to the party and celebrate your anniversary later.

I would re-schedule your anniversary dinner and go to the potluck for your friend... especially since she's moving away.