Take a 5-hour solo car trip with a 3 1/2 month old to go stay with my parents at their house on the coast for a few days
or
Stay home, while husband works the second half of a 14 day stretch (Mon-Thurs. days, Friday-Sunday nights). I get crazy bored at home, and we'd have to try to plan lots of things for the weekend days because my husband will be trying to sleep.
so...how terrible does the car trip sound?