I feel like since giving birth my relationship has gotten worse with my mom. We've been clashing on her having alone time with LO (LO is breastfed and mom lives a bit far, we told her she can take her once she's a bit older & weaned) and I recently found out she feels like I robbed her of the birthing experience. I really feel like she's made every decision that DH and I have decided together about her. I've tried to talk to her about it but it ends up with her crying.

I don't understand how after you have a baby it's like mom goes crazy. I don't want to be like that.

Has your relationship with your mother gotten better, worse, or stayed the same since having kids?