coconut / 8910 posts
My stomach is ridiculous. I did not expect this! I mean, I did to an extent but not like this! And so early!
persimmon / 1290 posts
Test post. Seeing an update on the boards page but not the post!
apricot / 426 posts
@mediagirl: Yay for insurance! I've been really struggling with the insomnia as well.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25192 posts
@LindsayInNY: it's crazy, right? This stomach is nuts.
I had my ultrasound today and everything looked good. Baby had hiccups and kept turning away from us lol but we were able to get one profile picture.
@MrsMom: Aw so cute!!
pear / 1555 posts
@dc yoga bee: @LindsayInNY: Trying to play catch up since I've been gone for so long - so wanted to say CONGRATS to both of you!!!!
persimmon / 1182 posts
I started the page for January 2019 moms, but at my first ultrasound on Friday my due date was moved up a week to 12/30, so I guess I'm a December 2018 mom now!
First child? Nope. We have a 5.5 year old son.
Any symptoms? Nausea, fatigue, dizziness
Who have you told? Immediate family, two close friends, my principal (I'm a teacher)
Current thoughts/feelings/fears? First trimester screening was scheduled for 7/2, but I have to reschedule it tomorrow because of the new due date. We are going on a two week vacation starting 6/16, so the only dates I can be seen are this Wednesday, Thursday or Friday. It's also the last week of school and I can't miss any work, so the appointment needs to be after 3pm. I'm stressed out that I won't be able to get in in time.
@Katrocap: Welcome! Glad to have you here!
Well my mom called and got the results from our NIPT for the gender and surprised us with a reveal.....We're having another Boy!! We're very excited and a little relieved (their birthdays will only be a week or two apart so everything from DS1 will be season appropriate & honestly we have soooo much boy stuff I didn't know how we would fit any girl stuff in).
GOLD / kiwi / 599 posts
@MrsMom: That's exciting! We have so much boy clothes that I also don't know what we would do if #2 ends up a girl.
@Katrocap: Welcome! So glad to have you join us My daughter is also about 5.5 yrs so we have a similar age gap for my two. I hope your testing appointment all works out for the timing like you need it! That seems tricky and stressful but maybe considering the timing they can squeeze you in just right.
@MrsMom: Aw yay! I think we'll be in the same boat if ours ends up another girl (bdays less than a month apart and I saved SO MUCH).
@Sams Mom: @lindseykaye: Thank you! And Yes we have a ton of clothes left over (some DS1 never even wore because we had too much). And having five brothers I guess I'll have to get used to the fact I will forever be surrounded by handsome men!
@Sams Mom: I’ll swap?! Lol. We’re team green but I have loads of summer clothes for an end of June girl.
I’m 14 1/2 weeks and swear I feel movement already. I know it’s earlier after your first but could it be?!
@LindsayInNY: Definitely! I've been feeling movement here and there for a couple weeks actually. Once you are familiar with what it feels like I think you can definitely tell earlier, plus your placenta may be in a different place this time and also lead to feeling movement more easily. Congrats - it's so nice to feel them and get that little reassurance
@LindsayInNY: I was and will be team green also... unless I get hit with Clomid multiples, then I have to know. I'm hoping my sister will go crazy on clothes shopping again if I have a girl, because she (single and childless) would show up at my house with a huge carters or target bag because they were having a great sale and she had points to use. I might have bought 20% of my son's clothes in the first year of his life.
@LindsayInNY: I've been feeling some movement here and there for a couple weeks but this week I can really notice the movements. It's so Nice to feel!!!
Anyone else having trouble with names? DD is Quinn Josephine. We knew it would be Quinn early on and took a little bit for the middle name. Now we easily have a dozen names for each gender, can barely agree on any, and I'm convinced we'll leave the hospital with "Nameless Baby in NY."
@LindsayInNY: Ohhh names. It took FOREVER to pick DD's name (Ellora Jean). We had a middle name for her first, a family middle name, so coming up with a first was a challenge. Plus we've had a boy name for years and years even before becoming pregnant with her so we hadn't considered girl names until after we found out the sex.
Now, we have our boy name since it's the same favorite but if it's another girl I have almost no clue.
I have a secret list I've been keeping but nothing is a standout yet. And I will have to see what hubs likes since we have a little bit different taste.
I'm also picky about names for siblings - like I don't want another E name, or a name that ends in -a because I don't want them to rhyme. I also don't want it to be too similar to either mine or my husband's names. Nickname options are also nice (we call our DD Ellie most of the time but wanted a 'formal' option) but again I don't want the nicknames to rhyme. Sheesh.. so many things to consider.
@LindsayInNY: @lindseykaye: Oh man the name game is hard! we've had girl names picked out forever, but boy names just seem hard to us. I had two picked out for DS1 and we waited until he was born to decide...then it took me three days in the hospital to decide which one! We just kept calling him baby boy HAHA This time DH says we have to have a name picked out ahead of time but I just can't commit until I see him. We currently have about 4 names and absolutely no clue on middle names yet.
With DS1 we had trouble agreeing on any names so we scrapped all the ones we didn't agree on and came up with new ones. It's hard but might be an option?
@MrsMom: We definitely knew her name for sure before the hospital but didn't tell ANYONE because we wanted it to be a surprise and also didn't want to hear any negative comments that might make us doubt our decision. I'm going to guess we'll do the same again.
My DD likes to suggest names (some good, some ridiculous) and I've been thanking her and also telling her that 'the baby will tell us their name' as a kind of white lie to keep her from being offended that she doesn't get to pick lol. It's almost like having to meet them first to know what their name should be, right? I feel like it would be nice to tell her in advance but then she will 100% tell everyone what it is. Who knows though, we might decide and love it enough to let everyone in on the name this time around.
And yeah, we had a second choice name for DD but it's not even in the running for this kid if it's a girl because I feel like I don't want to use the second's / not-picked name, you know?
Funny though you have all these girl names and ended up with a boy, and we have a definite boy name and ended up with a girl. Of course that's how it would work
@Katrocap: hi! Congrats! I'm so excited you're in this group!
@lindseykaye: That's so cute that she wants to contribute names I would write them down in the new baby's baby book (if you do that) to show them one day! Melts my heart.
Yes I totally feel like I have to meet them first to know what name will fit. We recently had a friend say she was naming hers Mckenzie and kept asking for different ways to spell it and what sounded better ect...it went on for months....then the baby was born and they named her Olivia?!? Everyone was very confused, so I don't want to cause confusion LOL. However it does frustrate some members in my family that I wont pick a name sooner LOL.
I automatically thought we were going to use the other name we didn't use with DS1 but DH just told me he doesn't want to anymore so that's why we're so unprepared haha.
@MrsMom: I should definitely do that! Something similar happened to my close friend where they picked the baby’s name, it was all over the baby shower - notes of advice for Baby X, on a banner, all of that. Then they changed the name before he got here
Is anyone keeping a pregnancy journal? I kept one for my DD but haven’t gotten one or started one for this baby yet. That might be a recurring theme of trying to maintain some of the special things for this second kid like I had done for our first.
@lindseykaye: Thinking of you oday! Hope you Scan went well!!
I kept a journal in the beginning of my last pregnancy (until things started going wrong). I thought about doing one for this one, but I just can't seem to find the time and I feel like this pregnancy is really going fast.
And it’s a... girl!
Today’s scan went well and we even got a DVD to take home which I didn’t expect. DD was shy but sweet and overall it was really nice to have her there with us.
The midwife who delivered her was even at the office when we went for my appt. after so that was really wonderful to get to see her and for her to see DD again. We had run into her around town when she was small but then she moved away for a while and also was doing midwifery missionary work in Syria (kind of amazing) so it had been a long time.
DD go to help the nurse take my blood pressure and then helped hold the doppler to hear the heartbeat with my midwife. Overall a fantastic appointment!
kiwi / 530 posts
@lindseykaye: So happy to hear this - what a lovely experience
@lindseykaye: YAY for another Girl!! I'm so glad you had such a great experience and something your daughter can remember being a part of.
I had my first trimester genetic screening today and am freaking out about the results. The baby has a 2.8mm nuchal transluceny which puts it in the 99th percentile and no detectible nasal bone. Unfortunately we are going on a two week vacation starting tomorrow so I won't be able to do genetic counseling or CVS/amnio until the first week of July. I also had my blood drawn for the NIPT and those results are supposed to be back in a week.
Has anyone had similar experiences or is familiar with this? I hate that I have to wait so long to find out more.
coffee bean / 42 posts
@Katrocap: I hope everything is ok! The ultrasound tech told us it doesn’t matter how close to 3.0 the measurement is, they just want to see it under 3. Hopefully your results come out clear!
@Katrocap: ugh, the timing! I hope the results of NIPT come back very quickly for you so you have more info.
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