DH has been working 24 shifts for the last couple months. He's working toward becoming a firefighter, so this will be the norm for us from now on. I feel like I'm drowning in chores, work and losing my identity. I WAH with no extra child care (own my own business). I need tips and encouragement in juggling it all.

We can afford a house cleaner once a month, but in between that... Well, let's just say I'm sitting on a pile of clothes on the couch. DH is awesome when he's home, but other than that, I don't have help and I feel disorganized and discouraged that I can't do it well.

How do you juggle it when you're solo parenting?