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@SweetiePie: girl you are for sure preggo!!! Wishing you a happy healthy little peanut.

@septca: hahah I love your neurosis because it makes me feel less alone with my own neurosis. I hope you are wrong though and you really are KU. I got very sick the week before I got my BFP with my son. Maybe it's just a baby boy taking longer to show up on a FRER? Fx for you.

@babypie: sorry you didn't get you second times a charm wish. I think it's hard not to hope for it to be easy again f it was seemingly easy the first time. I know I feel that way about this cycle too despite the fact that my cycles have also changed and I am 36 now not 34. I hope next cycle goes better for you.

@bushelandapeck: @HolisticMama: I can relate to this too. Not only is my libido not what it used to be since having our son but my husband is also kind of hard to get into the mood sometimes. I'm very nervous to force the issue but I'm hoping he will comply since tonight is our first BD night in the window. We shall see.

@sarahnicole218: soooo hoping this is your month doll!!!

@SweetiePie: I see it- Congrats!!!!

@whatsarahsaid: FX!

@septca: I love your POAS theories! Are you drinking enough water? That sometimes makes me feel like that.... either way, FX you get some good news to report shortly!

I am super super super antsty for O this month, so let me on the crazy train at the next stop.

Does anyone else's DHs take TTC BDing seriously? Mine is going into it this next month like a prize fighter. He seems to take personal affront to his "boys" not immediately knocking me up.

@sarahnicole218: still holding out hope for you!

@Crystal: Yes, my DH is like this! He was pretty damn cocky about it the first time I got pregnant because it literally happened the first try, so the fact that we've been TTC with ovulation tests for 4 months now with nothing happening has been a bit of a blow to his ego.

@sandy: booo.. its still early

@sarahnicole218: boo for AF.. but yay for monitored cycle!

@Crystal: My husband definitely takes its serious. But he's VERY type A. I'm lucky he doesn't schedule BD. He's all business.. LOL

@SweetiePie: Congrats!!! SO very very excited and happy for you. Sending you lots of sticky vibes

@whatsarahsaid: oooo that all sounds super promising!!!! Sending lot's of positive thoughts your way!

@septca: you're not out yet! Hope you start feeling better

@septca: there is speculation that girls show up in hcg sooner than boys do but I've seen people with a positive at like 8dpo have a boy so I'm not sure of the credence. My tests were really light at 15DPO and I had a boy. There are quite a few people who have negatives before positives too so I think managing your expectations is good but don't down a bottle of wine just yet hehe

I figure any early predictor test has a 50% chance of being right, but I still think its fun to look at!

I just did the chinese predictor chart, and if I get KU this month, supposedly we will have a girl.

@littlek: I love how proactive you are. All those guidelines that tell you to wait 6 months over 35 don't factor in that appointments can take time to get and then testing itself takes time. I hope you are KU on your own though.

@MrsMccarthy: I kind of hope that DH has candles lit or something for me when I come home. Because apparently I live in some baby making fantasy or something.

@Crystal: I'm pretty sure my DH is the opposite of your DH. And I'm always thinking.."ARGH! Your count is low and morphology is off! We need to try all that much harder!"

@sarahnicole218: Oh no! LOL. I am so sorry that you feel bad. But I just had to giggle when you said "full on attack-mode." Sometimes I feel like my body does that to me too.

@littlek: Oh! I really enjoyed my meeting with my RE. He actually said that quite a few people get pregnant after just _meeting_ with a RE. Like it's some awesome reassurance or something.

@HolisticMama: that's awesome!!!!

@HolisticMama: hahaha that's funny! That's exciting about your trip!

@littlek: Congratulations! That is a big step.

@MrsMccarthy: Well, here's hoping. Day 3 of absurd nausea. No other symptoms to suggest the flu... WHY do weird illnesses always happen during the TWW?

@HolisticMama: Fantastic!!! That will be GREAT. I would absolutely not stop TTC unless you would be 30+ weeks for the trip. We went to Paris when I was 26 weeks and it was great. I still felt good, was able to walk everywhere, etc.

@HolisticMama: That's fantastic! My husband and I went to Venice on our honeymoon and absolutely loved it!

For those that have had bpf's before, did you have EWCM after you thought you O'd? My body used to be so predicable before the m/c and now I've had EWCM three separate times this month with no confirmed O date. I'm CD 20 today and have no idea if I O'd or not....I'm also having some of the same pulling/tightening on my right side that I've had both times I've been pregnant before but I keep telling myself I am just making things up.

We are going to VT in a couple of weeks and I will be able to go skiing for the first time in 4 years. I am already worried that I won't be able to go skiing, on the off chance that I am pregnant this month. I don't even know if it would matter that early but I don't know that I would be able to enjoy myself knowing that something could happen...sigh.

@septca: You poor thing. That isn't fun at all.

I agree with sickness during the TWW- so not fair.

@HolisticMama: I agree with the others, April wouldn't make you too far along, so I would go for it!!! And with the travel insurance, you have nothing to worry about.

@littlek: What did you say when you called the re? I have an appointment in February with my gyn. and I am hoping she can help get the ball rolling but I guess I felt like I needed permission to contact a re (just because I am a rule follower not because of insurance or anything.) I love my gyn but if a re would be a better choice I would rather switch earlier as opposed to later in the process.

@septca: I swear 3/4 of my cycles have involved mystery illnesses during the tww. It is totally unreasonable!

@HolisticMama: That sounds like such fun! I hope you are pregnant and not sick for it!

@Crystal: I wish he took it a bit more seriously or maybe less? He seems to stress out right at the critical time and bd seems like a chore at that point.

@sarahnicole218: Sorry to hear you are out but it is awesome that this month has a great plan!

@bushelandapeck: Yeah, ick. My cycles have been *so* odd postpartum. I had planned to continue to BF 2x/day as long as DD wanted to, but my milk seems to be drying up and, honestly, I am totally okay with that. I can only hope that weaning will lead me back to normal cycles and more hope of TTC #2!