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That's a bummer! I am not a FB expert by any means, but I think once they share it is in their hands and they have to delete it. So I would send them a message asking them to delete it!

i'm pretty sure your privacy settings determine who can see the pictures, even if someone shares it. you can set it so that only your friends can see the pictures. that way if they do share it, only mutual friends of you and your aunts will be able to see it. i hope i'm not wrong.

Oh man. This is a sore spot with me. Dh's uncle is constantly sharing pictures of our infant from Facebook with his friends. I'm on the verge of defriending him, but he'd still share dh's images and he won't say anything to him. Bleh.

@Crumbs: I hate FB so much because of this. I've tried addressing the issue but people usually ignore what I say. The only way to delete the photo from their page is to delete it from FB completely. Their friends can still see the pictures even if you have your privacy settings set to "friends only." I believe it also gives them access to the album that the photo is in.

@Crumbs: @jmarionsmith is right. The only way other people would be able to see it would be if your aunt saved the pic to her computer and re-posted it with her own security settings. If she used the in-fb share option then your security settings still apply.

@Beebug: I put my MIL on my restricted and limited lists. Whenever I post anything, I make it clear that those on these lists won't see what's posted. I check the "View As" to be sure. I also have my future posts set up to have whatever I post not to shown to those lists as well.