I know! One of these questions, right? I'm typically a very easygoing wife. My husband and I go out to bars without each other, we go on vacations with friends, there's nothing really "off limits." Basically we both do whatever we want, which is great for our relationship.
We typically vacation several times a year because we love to travel. One of those trips is I go away with my girlfriends for a few days, and he goes on a golf trip upstate. The golf trip includes drinking, gambling, and of course, conveniently, no cell phone service.
This year, we're overwhelmed by the costs of the adoption, as well as the fact that we're moving in two weeks. We "cancelled" all the trips we usually do, and I told my girlfriends I couldn't join on our typical girls' long weekend.
A couple months ago, I found out that my husband went ahead and booked his golf trip anyway. He "thought" we weren't counting it as part of the things we were canceling. The golf trip is Wednesday to Sunday. He decided to leave early and visit with his parents Sunday - Wednesday. So he's been gone since last Sunday.
To compound things, I'm back on Metformin, so I was reluctant to make plans with friends, being unsure of how my stomach would feel. So basically, it's been wake up -- work - endure stomach cramps - bed. And I've been stuck with all the chores we usually split up, which has been more overwhelming than I expected.
I am angry and miserable. When he sends me cute messages and wants to chat, I am in no freakin' mood. He knows exactly how I feel about this trip, but he figures what's done is done and whatever, better luck next year. But I just CANNOT seem to get past this.