I'm almost 14 weeks and I'm considering joining one. But I'm still hesitant about joining because I don't want to pay dues required to join and what happens if I lose a twin.

I'm thinking about emailing the group to see if I can get a refund if something bad happens.

Anyway, I really want to go to one of the sales to get used baby gear.

Are you part of one? Have you gone to one of the sales?