I have a couple of friends...but one in particular who gets pissed off when she's not invited out, but when she is, says no immediately.

I'm a bit tired of being the bigger person and just inviting her to celebrations and stuff, but I feel like if I don't things will just get worse than they already are. I just sent an invite for a holiday party and right away she responded "no but thanks." I'm *so* tempted not to invite her to anything anymore.

Do you find yourself being the bigger person more often than not?