I kept one secret from him for many months. Couldn't stand it anymore so I had to tell him. HAHA
Secret was that LO fell off our bed while he was out of town.
I think I told him 6 months later.
Haaaaaaaah. I so crazy.
I kept one secret from him for many months. Couldn't stand it anymore so I had to tell him. HAHA
Secret was that LO fell off our bed while he was out of town.
I think I told him 6 months later.
Haaaaaaaah. I so crazy.
hostess / eggplant / 11068 posts
Not secrets, per se, but I've kept details from SO but only because he just didn't want to know. I still feel the need to tell him but I just don't. Is that bad?
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
Nope, only surprises for gifts. Sometimes I don't tell him things about my parents finances, etc. (I take care of it for them logistically not with $$) because I don't want them to feel bad and he doesn't need to know anyway.
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
@artbee: Ugh. I couldn't even keep his birthday gift a surprise..
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
@Rubies: nope! if he doesn't want to know it's all good!
@mrsjyw: i keep some family details on the DL too.
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
I have a secret baby stash. He thinks it's one or two items. Shhh, it's like 10 items, now, and growing...
I do make and handle the money in my house so it's not that big of a deal. I'm not buying huge $$$ items like cribs. It's just little stuff like a onsies or a cute toy. Things I find on Zulliy or Woot for a great price.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
I don't tell him when I eat/buy yummy food while he's at work!! he gets jealous... but I'm awful at destroying the evidence. He was sad I ate chipotle today... I forgot to take out the garbage.. oops!!
I also "forget" to tell him when I go shopping.
I hide tiny amount of money around the house until it accumulates and then I go shopping... hahahaha he's always like, "where did this money come from?!" lol
pear / 1554 posts
@chopsuey119: that just happened to my LO this week. I really thought about not telling DH but I felt guilty so I sent him a text telling him she fell off our bed. After he asked if she was ok, he sent me a lecture by text telling me I should be more careful and maybe I should go to bed earlier since I dozed off while playing with her on the bed.
cherry / 212 posts
@Coco Bee: I used to hide $ too, but I always felt like I couldn't spend it. Finally I told DH and we went on a nice date together!
I am terrible at keeping anything from the Mr. Even if I stop at Starbucks, I feel like I should tell him!
GOLD / papaya / 10206 posts
I don't advertise when I shop. We have joint everything so it's not like he can't see it if he looks.
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
Gifts and if my shopping gets a little out of control I try to keep it a secret until he asks me about bank transactions (dang joint checking/online banking.) Otherwise we are very open and honest about everything.
clementine / 961 posts
I don't tell him about everything I buy when I go shopping but in my defense we have a joint account and we both have seperate accounts. The $ that goes into our seperate accounts is our fun money so he doesn't really care and I don't usually tell him about my purchases unless I got a really good deal on something.
pear / 1837 posts
Not really... I mean, I might underplay how often I hit up Starbucks, or how many books I buy, but he doesn't actually care about that stuff beyond an eye-rolling sort of way.
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