I'm watching True Life- We're breaking up and it's about long time BFF's that don't get along anymore. I think that's normal though, people grow up and grow apart. I'm still friends with my BFF from high school, but we're not as close as we used to be.
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My BFF since I was 7 is actually my sister in law now (I married her brother!) I'm still close with one other friend too but for the most part the rest of us have drifted apart.
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I still consider her my best friend--we've been friends for 13 years now! We live in different states and are not close in the same way we used to be, but we still know and "get" each other in a really special way. We can go a long time without talking and then pick it right back up again. I actually get to see her next week for the first time in about 18 months! Very excited!
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Not BFFs but we are still super close. If we lived nearby I think we would be!
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I'm still really good friends with my high school best friend, though not "best friends". I am still friends with a small group from high school, even though we live far apart. It's a good think people keep getting married and having babies, since we tend to see each other at weddings and showers!
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I am still friends with one of my very good friends in high school (not really my BFF, not sure I had one, but the closest to it). We lost touch in college, but had some random summer classes together at a local college one year and then reconnected just before DS was born since we were both expecting. We live really close and she has been great! It was/is so nice to have a close friend now become close mommy friend!
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Yup! We don't see each other as often as we would like to but I still consider her my best friend. We have been friends for over 20 years!
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My BFF has been my BFF since we were 8!
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We were best friends from 5th grade on. I haven't seen her in 3 years, our lives to such different paths that we just haven't reconnected. I actually ran into her parents yesterday which was a lovely surprise! She is one of those people who complains about all of the baby pictures on people's Facebook walls, so it's kind of hard to keep a close connection with someone who doesn't like kids...
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Yes, since I was 15. I call her my wife (and vice versa). I rarely see her, though, since she moved down to Richmond, but we're going down in about a month...she hasn't met E yet!
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Absolutely. There are a group of us and we are still bffs.
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Nope, just friends on FB!
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Yes, she is still my BFF. We've been friends for 14 years! We live in different states, and there have been extended periods of time where she's been traveling out of the country, but we still manage to get in touch with each other one way or another pretty much every day. Texting, gchat, email, phone call. Whatever we can manage. We realized the other day that we basically have one reallllllly long, never-ending convo. Aside from phone calls, there are no real starts and stops to our conversations. We might be gchatting during the day, then one of us goes idle, and a few hours later I will get a text that picks up where we left off. She's that friend that I can message and say "I haven't washed my hair in 3 days and it smells kinda funky, plus I have chocolate stains all over my shirt, because I ate 3 pieces of cake for dinner. What is wrong with my life?" And she'll tell me I'm doing awesome. Haha. Love it.
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Im still Bff with my elementary school bff. We can not talk for like a year and be like hey what's up. Then we are right back where we were before. She has done 3 tours in Iraq so we are use to have a long distance relationship even if she does live 10 min away now.
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My high school BFFs were my bridesmaids less than a year ago
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Yep. I have 2 really good friends from elementary/middle school. They were my college roommates and bridesmaids. We're still really close
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Yep.. we have been BFFs since grade 2! She was my MOH too. I moved 3 hours away so we don't see each other as much, but we text almost daily!
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Yes! We've been friends since we were 4! She lives in NY and I in SC, but were definitely still BFFs!
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Yup! BFFs for over ten years and counting! It helps that we ended up in the same city after going to different colleges. I'm worried we might not stay as close if DH and I move away soon, though
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Yep! We were born 4 days apart, grew up BFFs, lived together in college, and still are super super close.
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Yup 17 years going strong
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We're still friends, not BFFs but good friends. We live in different states and don't talk as much as we used to but our relationship is great. I love how it's grown and changed as we have. She's been especially helpful since I became a mother (her kids are older).
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Yup, a group of us have been friends since we were toddlers. We all lead busy lives but are still good friends, hang out, etc.
Friends can come & go but it's nice to have a core group who know everything about you & have been through all the ups & downs, etc. -
Unfortunately, no. We went very different ways after high school, but I still tried my very best to keep our relationship strong. Sadly, she made questionable life choice after questionable life choice, and in the past year, it came to a point where we just had to let the friendship go. I honestly just wish her the best in life, but realize being close is relatively impossible.
I am, however, still best friends with my two closest buddies from college. We pledged our sorority together (after being reluctant about greek life, to begin with), and have been inseparable ever since.
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I have one friend in MN and she has been my BFF since 5th grade! She lives about 45 minutes away so I only see her maybe once a month (if even). She isn't married, no kids, but we still are super close!
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Yes, but we've drifted apart a little in the past couple of years, which makes me really sad. She lived out of the country for 2 years, and now lives in another city 3 hours away, so it's hard to keep in touch as much. Plus, she isn't married & still lives a very single lifestyle, while I've been married for 3 years & have a baby. Our different stages of life makes things kind of difficult.
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Yep! Definitely, there were my bridesmaids.. been friends with them for 20 years
and out of HS for 11 years.. We don't live close, but always talk and see each other when we can.
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No
I had a pretty bad falling out with my hs BFFs in college, and haven't spoken to either of them in years. It's sad, but not much I can do about it, unfortunately.
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We live about 2 hours away, but I do still see her 2-3x a year and we talk by email now and then. She's no longer my best friend, but we have a lot of history and she's still a good friend.
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She's my very best friend
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@char54: cool!
My BFF since 1st grade was my MOH, and we still see each other every week or so, and talk almost every day. She lives in the next town over.
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Yup! I feel awfully lucky to still be close to my best gals!
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No, we drifted apart my senior year. We went separate ways after high school, and while we are friends, we aren't very close. More like acquaintances. I am much closer with my friends from college, 10 years and still going strong!
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Going on 28 years! (Since kindergarten.) we weren't as close in high school or college actually but before and after bffs for sure. AND our lo'd are two weeks apart!
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My BFF from high school is still my BFF. I wouldn't say we're nearly as close as we used to be but we still make time to catch up with each other every month or so. We'll just always have something special and no friend will ever be like she is to me.
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Unfortunately no, we are still friends though and I see her at least once when I get back home usually. My very first friend in college, though, is definitely still my bestie! Her LO and mine are just 18 days apart too!
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Yes! We met in 3rd grade and are still just as close!! She is my best friend and I consider her like family- the sister I never had!!
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nope, unfortunately she went ca-ca-ca-crazzzzzzzy a few years ago and we lost touch. It hurt my feelings for a long time because I tried really hard to keep in touch and be there for her and she didn't reciprocate. I'm ok with it now though, such is life.
I am still close friends, AKA BFF-for-life with my best bud since Kindergarten. He's the shit!!
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No. Just. No. : /
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Yes! We've been friends since 9th grade. She was MOH at my wedding and she's C's godmother and will be her legal guardian if something happens to us.
We even call each other's Moms Mom. She's basically my sister. Now, her and DH's best friend are dating and living together, so it works out perfect!
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