It seems like no matter where I am in my life I am always the poorest one in my group of friends/peers. We are doing okay but we really can't afford to indulge in much. A friend wanted me to do a spa day with her last week because it was "only 20 dollars" for the day and I felt so embarrassed to tell her we can't afford that right now. Is anyone else used to brig the poor friend? How do you handle it? I feel bad when people treat me all the time or I have to decline doing certain things with them but such is life.