Most of my friends (with kids) that I see regularly are working parents. I have a few SAH friends that don't live near me and my SIL works PT.
I hope I can make some local SAH parent friends during my next maternity leave.
Most of my friends (with kids) that I see regularly are working parents. I have a few SAH friends that don't live near me and my SIL works PT.
I hope I can make some local SAH parent friends during my next maternity leave.
blogger / grapefruit / 4836 posts
Most of my close friends actually aren't parents, which has been hard as a SAHM...I don't see those friends nearly enough anymore! I have made a few SAHM friends, but it is really tough with different schedules and sick kiddos. I also have a few WOHM friends, but they are hard to see too. Being a SAHM can be pretty isolating...but maybe thats because Ive always been the type to have a few good friends rather than a wide network of acquaintances.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
I have a mix. Some WOHM, some SAHM. Most of the SAHM friends have older kids, my friends with kids DS' age are mostly WOHM.
honeydew / 7230 posts
They all work outside the home. A couple work part time though, so we can do play dates! One of my closest friends is a teacher so we have the summers to get together too.
honeydew / 7091 posts
Well, the majority of my friends actually don't have kids...
But otherwise I only have one friend that is a SAHM, and she's my daycare provider
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
WOHP. Mostly friends from college that have kids or ladies I met at work.
pomelo / 5220 posts
most of my friends don't have kids, which sucks because there is definitely distance growing between us. My two sets of friends with kids are all WOHPs.
hostess / cantaloupe / 6486 posts
WOH. Only one is a SAHM but she has 4 boys and homeschool them so needless to say, she's a bit busy lol
pineapple / 12802 posts
I have one WOHP, the wife of DH's best friend. We've become good friends.
I have one SAHP (now with part time work since her girls are in pre-school/kindergarten), we've been friends for a long time.
Wow. That's sad.
pomelo / 5258 posts
All of my college friends that have had kids are SAHMs and I'm a WOHM. There are a lot of WOHM in my office and in LO's playgroup though.
blogger / pomegranate / 3201 posts
WOHP, like us. I think we know one SAHM (who was working until last month) and a couple part time working moms.
pomegranate / 3643 posts
Some without kids, some who WOH. Some who don't really fit in the traditional SAH/WOH dichotomy.
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
It's a mix. A lot of my closest friends aren't actually parents yet!
coconut / 8234 posts
My close friends I see regularly all WOH. My two best friends who live in different states both work part-time, one does a job share WOH 3 days a week and the other has gone to part-time WAH until her son turns 1 and she'll go back to work full-time.
I have SAH friends but they all live out of state so I only see them really via FB and checking in with e-mail.
cantaloupe / 6687 posts
My best friends from childhood are WOH with older kids but most of my close friends that I see regularly during the week are SAH with young kids like me. I had to find all new friends when I had C and decided to SAH and I'm so thankful for them.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
1 WOH friend.
All of the neighbors I know are SAH, which stinks. I wish I could find some WOH neighbors with kids my kid's age.
pineapple / 12566 posts
SAH, but I live in an expat community and many people aren't legally allowed to work, just their spouse. Or if they can work, often the language barrier prevents them from accessing the job market.
bananas / 9899 posts
It goes right down the middle. Half are working parents and the other half are stay at home.
pear / 1622 posts
I find that I am closer now with my co-workers who have little ones - WOHM and having kids in daycare - we can relate to the tough times with that. Unfortunately since having a LO, I see my friends outside of work less. The ones with 2 kids are harder to get together with than the ones with 1 kid or no kids or grown kids. It seems like 2 vs 1 is more of the issue than WOH vs SAH.
pomelo / 5789 posts
All of our friends with kids are SAHM. I'm a WAHM. I miss hanging out with them
coconut / 8483 posts
Most are off on a year long mat leave right now because we all have almost 1 year olds. Most of them are going back to work. Probably 75% if my friends WOH
apricot / 320 posts
Almost all of my local friends are SAH - I admit I'm a little jealous that they get to hang out with their kids during the week, especially in the summertime! When we do get together it's usually for girls' night out, brunch, etc. since the weekends are their time to get out without kids.
I've become closer with coworkers who have kids, and it's nice to be able to relate. I will say though that I'm still just as close with my SAH friends, and we're very supportive of each other.
pomelo / 5660 posts
A mixture. I've had to work to find SAHM to be my friend since I quit working.
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
Mostly SAH. I met several wonderful SAHM friends after c was born when we took a mommy and me class at 6 weeks. Naturally the SAHMs kept in touch more after the class ended since we were all looking for something to do during the week. I think a few of the wohms also kept in touch more, just because the scheduling is so much easier when you have similar work schedules.
Of friends I had prebaby, I think it's still slightly more sah than WOH, plus a handful of friends without kids.
nectarine / 2134 posts
Both! Obviously my friends from work who are also parents are WOHM parents But I have a few friends from before we all started having kids that are now SAHM and we're still close.
pineapple / 12053 posts
Mostly WAHMs for those closest to me that I see because our schedules line up and we all work for ourselves. My oldest dearest friends are all work, some combo of PT, WAH, and WOH.
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