Im in my early 30s, and we just learned that a couple we are friends with separated this fall. They have two kids under 3. We know about another couple with no kids that separated this summer, and another childless couple that divorced last year. They were all married 4-6 years. Does anyone else have married friends who are splitting up and know how to handle it? Both DH and I have parents who are still married, so divorce is something we are not very familiar with.