I was just curious about this. My parents got divorced a few years ago and DH's father passed away back in August.
Are your parents married?
Edit: My parents separated when I was 19 years old so I was already out of the house.
I was just curious about this. My parents got divorced a few years ago and DH's father passed away back in August.
Are your parents married?
Edit: My parents separated when I was 19 years old so I was already out of the house.
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cantaloupe / 6206 posts
They just celebrated 43 years I sent them a card with a pic of our u/s (their first grandchild) saying sorry they had to wait so long. Ha ha.
pomegranate / 3516 posts
@sslm: That's amazing!
I'm always amazed at long marriages. DH's grandparents have been married over 60 years! I think it's 63 this year but I'm not positive on that.
honeydew / 7589 posts
Yes. My parents, DH's parents, and both sets of my grandparents are still married.
pomegranate / 3516 posts
My paternal grandparents were actually divorced (although my maternal grandmother died when she was 50 years old) and my maternal grandfather passed away when my grandmother was 55. I believe both of DH's maternal grandparents died fairly young.
persimmon / 1408 posts
Mine divorced when I was ten (married for 13 years)... my dad married my step-mom the same year, then they divorced when I was 22.
BUT NOW - my mom and dad are back together. They've been dating/living together for the last ~6 years. My mom says she's never getting married again... but it's so weird to go home now and my dad be there.
cantaloupe / 6206 posts
@CarrieLouWho: WHOA! I'm always so fascinated by couples who get back together after getting divorced.
pomegranate / 3516 posts
@CarrieLouWho: That would be weird! I can't imagine if my parents got back together (and I don't think they will).
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
My parents will be married 40 years this sept! We (the kids) are throwing them a surprise anniversary party but I'll miss it since I'll have a few week old baby 5 hours away.
Dh parents got divorced when he was in junior high.
coconut / 8279 posts
My parents have been married for 39 years Gotta throw them a party next year
persimmon / 1408 posts
@jojogirl - Yeah, it's pretty crazy. Especially when I talk to my friends that I grew up with... they're all like - wait, your parents are back together?
I can't believe it... but I guess it's what every kid dreams of!
persimmon / 1408 posts
@belugabean - never in a million years did I think my mom would take my dad back! NEVER EVER. I wasn't surprised that my dad wanted to get back with her - he always told me that leaving her was one of the biggest mistakes he ever made. He probably shouldn't have been telling that to a 12 year old :o)
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
My parents have been married 40 years this year. Dh's parents have been married 50 years this year.
GOLD / cantaloupe / 6581 posts
Nope, they separated in 2010 and got divorced finally late last year. It was not a fun time. DH's parents have been married for over 30 years. Divorce seems to run in my family - my grandparents divorced after 50 years, both of my aunts got divorced, etc. I'm hoping to break that trend
eggplant / 11824 posts
My parents have been happily married for 42 years this year! They were married for 10 years before they had me.
GOLD / papaya / 10206 posts
yep both of our parents are married. 36 and 37 years this year!
coconut / 8854 posts
@CarrieLouWho: I'm in a similar situation!
My parents seperated when I was 6, got back together (dad was unfaithful) they had my brother and sister, and then when my brother and sister were 1 my dad was unfaithful again, so then they got divorced when I was 10. When I was 16 they got back together. They never re-married and I doubt they ever will, but they've been back together for 8 years now.
Although I know my mom isn't 100% happy, but my dad makes a lot of money, and my mom just works part time, and wouldn't be able to support herself if she wasn't with him A sucky situation.
DH's parents divorced when he was 16 I think. Another VERY interesting reason why, but I don't think I should discuss his family matters on here.
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
Yup... 38 years and happily married.
@Bookworm: wow... I can't imagine getting divorced after 50years!
pomegranate / 3895 posts
To one another? Nope.
My parents separated before I was a year old and were both re-partnered by the time I was around two. They both remarried when I was six. So I was blessed to be raised, for as long as I can remember, by four wonderful and living parents. I am very lucky.
My dad and stepmum will be celebrating their 25th wedding anniversary next week. My mum and stepdad were married for just a couple months under 23 years when my stepfather passed away in the spring of 2011.
coconut / 8483 posts
@CarrieLouWho: wow can't imagine that! esp after so long apart. how cool!
my parents divorced when I was 18, theyd been married for 20 years. my mom has been engaged for like 5 years but i dont think they will ever get married!
eggplant / 11716 posts
My parents were amrried for 37 years, before my dad passed away at 57. My DH's parents are at 34 years of marriage right now!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
My parents divorced when I was a baby. I think they were married for less than 2 years. They are both remarried now.
coconut / 8234 posts
Technically they are both married, just to other people
My parents divorced when I was about 4 or 5, I don't really remember. My dad has been remarried for 10 years and my mom got married a couple of years ago.
honeydew / 7303 posts
My parents got divorced when I was 9. My mom has since passed away, and my dad has been with my step mom for 17 years. They've only been married 1.5 though.
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
My parents just celebrated their 30th anniversary this past Christmas! They've been through A LOT and my dad is so strong mentally and emotionally for putting up with it all.
cantaloupe / 6869 posts
My parents separated briefly when I was 10 (infidelity on my father's part) and then got back together. They tried to "stay together for the kids" but eventually, they decided to get a divorce when I was 20 after 22 years of marriage. They are both remarried now.
DH's parents divorced when he was 6. His father is on wife #3 and his mother is remarried as well.
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
Yes, it will be 35 years this year! DH's are also married and it will be 40 for them next year!
pomegranate / 3980 posts
My parents divorced when I was really young, I don't even remember them together. And they've both been remarried and divorced again too...
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