I have a brother who adores LO but lives 400 miles away. He has made 3 trips to see her and we FaceTime a few times a month.

DH has a brother who lives 40 miles away but works 10 miles away. He sees LO about 1-2 times a week.

DH has another brother who lives less than a mile away. He isn't interested in LO at all and has seen her twice. BIL is pretty self centered so I'm not surprised but his lack of interest in LO really bugs DH.

How involved are your siblings and SO's siblings?