wonderful pear / 26210 posts
@lamariniere: We had the same criteria, that we had to be able to easily pronounce the names in two languages.
I think simple is better, this coming from someone that has an ethnic first name, a middle name that is my former ethnic maiden and a rather simple married last name. My first name is 3 syllables, the middle is 4 and the last is 2. You wouldn't believe how many people stumble on it and call me random names.
wonderful pea / 17279 posts
@MrsTiz: me too...just recently one of our execs used the common spelling to include me on a group email and yeah I didn't receive it.
@mrsjazz: as much I would like to think my super popular common "white" name insulates me from name discrimination I really think the creative spelling takes away from the name's usefulness.
The article mentioned using middle initials is associated with higher intelligence. Finally, I'm doing something right. I use my middle initial all the time because my name is so common and vanilla that I figure my initial helps set me apart from the rest.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
@pui: I LOVE STFU Parents, haha. I get some parenting advice (what NOT to post on FB) from there.
@Danizaur: I have a Luna in my family!
cantaloupe / 6923 posts
It's not my kid, name them whatever YOU want. I'm not a fan of making fun of others name choices. But then again I've gotten a lot of crap over my daughters name (mostly from family) so I think I've become more tolerant to names.
watermelon / 14206 posts
DH and I have a naming rule that our kids need to be able to go to a tourist shop and get a souvenir already on the shelf with their name on it. We actually picked S's name at a tourist shop in Daytona.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
@MrsTiz: and what stinks is, I didn't realize it until after she was born, too. EVERYONE wants to add an extra letter to her name. Drives me effing bonkers.
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
So the answer to "who wins the name game" is basically....white men, lol.
I read a similar article that discussed a man named Kim X. And he had a hard time getting a job until he put "Mr. Kim X" on his resume. Then the calls came flying in.
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
@anonysquire: I like Zu Zu's name. The names I can't stand are the ones like that chalkboard lady had picked out.
pineapple / 12526 posts
@Danizaur: haha, I dig Ts name too. It reminds me of a romance novel hero. (Not in a bad way)
cantaloupe / 6923 posts
@Danizaur: well thanks haha. I've just started not caring if people don't like it
unfortunately Zuma is my most tame name choice. But thank you
I like it too!
eggplant / 11716 posts
@beaker: You know my situation is similar. My husband has both a first and last name that doesn't really exist in English and it hasn't hurt his career or social life at all. But I think the key in this article was "all other qualifications being the same...".
Just a good reason to make sure you (your kids) are MORE qualified than the next Joe Smith. When you are more qualified, you don't have to worry so much.
I never would have thought "Marissa" is a powerful name, but look at Marissa Meyer. Same for Oprah Winfrey. Indra Nooyi is the CEO of PepsiCo. Cisco's PTO is Padmasee Warrior...that's a name you won't see often. Ertharin Cousin is the World Food Programme Executive Director...and Ertharin is not a name I've ever even seen before.
eggplant / 11716 posts
And check out this judge, who went by his middle name his whole life. Judge Barefoot Sanders. true story.
pomegranate / 3244 posts
@mediagirl: I have the same name as your lo (spelled the same). When I was a baby someone gifted my parents an ornament that said "___'s First Christmas. " I guess they weren't sure how to spell it, because It has all sorts of extra letters-e, a, h, y....
Like if you weren't sure why not go with the most common spelling? Why invent your own? 30 years later and it still baffles me.
pineapple / 12526 posts
@MediaNaranja: It's my name too, same spelling. Can confirm, no one spells it right. Everyone wants to add the h
persimmon / 1343 posts
@Danizaur: My daughter is Luna
I love her name and everyone seems to like it, though it is a little tiring to hear "ooh do you know that means moon in Spanish/Italian/Russian/everyfreakinlanguage" lol as if I named my kid not knowing what her name means.
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
@dreamocracy: Haha I never thought of that. I'm sure that gets annoying. Lol!!! DH and I both love Luna.
I could always name her Luna Luna for Moon Moon. Hahaha
nectarine / 2667 posts
I think he has a good point about not being able to make an immediate connection with someone by not being able to pronounce their name. That's why "alternative" spellings bother me. If you have changed the spelling of the name so much that's it's unreadable to a stranger, you should reconsider. I love "unusual" names that you don't hear often (my son has one!), but the spelling thing really irks me.
clementine / 920 posts
@DANIZAUR Truett makes me think of Chick fil a since that is the name of the owner/founder. Are you from the south?
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
@Bluemasonjar: We are from the south but not chick fil a fans or fans of the owner. When we named Truett I found out that was his name. Just an unfortunate coincidence. Lol!
grapefruit / 4770 posts
I'm black, and my parents have common race ambiguous names, and gave my brother common race ambiguous names. My DH really wants our kids to have a name that isn't commonly white, but we will choose what fits. I don't want to name our kids based off a resume, but I am glad going into interviews they don't know whether I'm black or white. I feel I get more of a fair opportunity to show what I've got! Also, I apparently "sound white" on the phone as well. Some of my clients have actually told me to my face they totally thought I was a white woman in her 30s on the phone. Nope, not at all. And not 30...yet!
coconut / 8475 posts
@loveisstrange: um, all the names on her list are equally fugly.
We used an Arabic name but we made sure to spell it as simple as possible and not use excessive letters as to not draw more attention to it's foreignness.
pomelo / 5866 posts
Interesting! I like Freakonomics kinda stuff. The comments were pretty good!
apricot / 309 posts
This sometimes goes the other way as well. A lot of companies want to "add diversity" when hiring, and would be pretty surprised if an applicant named Jamal Jefferson turned out to be white.
eggplant / 11716 posts
@MrsBananaGrabber: and different names have different positive/negative associations that cause resume readers to make assumptions (and obviously many times they will be inaccurate).
Like.... looking for your new IT manager? You're going to call a Xao Min or a Sandeep Patel before you call a McKartlee Buffington. But then looking for your new kindergarten teacher and suddenly McKartlee is getting more calls.
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