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@Crystal: I am around 11dpo, cd 26. In my last pregnancy (which ended in mc) I had a positive test on cd 29 when AF was due

I am feeling so poorly atm- I got a full blown fever of 103. Cue to googling all horror scenarios "fever while early pregnant"

@busylizzy111: definitely go to the drs! That's high!!! You poor thing.

I've headed to the ER at 103 before. I definitely wouldn't let it get any higher than that! And make sure you're staying hydrated!

@MaryM: ouch, that's a lot!

@busylizzy111: what about an urgent care?

No big weekend plans, lots of lazy relaxing. I might get a massage this weekend, but aside from that, cleaning up the garage and maybe visiting family.

If you use preseed and BD, can you tell what is actually CM? Sorry for the TMI.

@MaryM: I'm excited about that!

@AmeliaBedilia: are you sure it's not you? It does sometimes make me have more, but it can't replicate egg white cm.

@organicmama: I am so sorry to hear that. Hugs!

Thanks for asking, the fever was gone this morning after a very sweaty night, but now it is right back up ( I am across the pond fyi). I will do a full health check with my doctor next week

@busylizzy111: @lazypanda: @crystal: @lindsayinny: Thank you all for the kind words. I talked with DH this morning and he thinks when we completely give up control, it will happen. I told him that emotionally I'm going to prepare myself for it not to happen but he made me promise I wouldn't give up hope. And I won't. I know God can nod a baby into existance. Nothing I do or don't do will affect that. @lazypanda shared with me that she got her bfp on the 2nd unmedicated cycle after clomid. So deep down I will continue to have hope, but I am going to start accepting our life as is... with one, AMAZING little boy who is so very loving and special. I've even been reading about accepting secondary infertility by researching all the great things of having an "Only". Whatever happens, it is well with my soul! Love you girls.

@organicmama: big, huge hugs, friend.

Our little thread feels like it's dying off.

I've been lurking. 10 people I know announced more pregnancies this week and it's been hard. I did tell my MIL and my mom about the verdict from the RE, but I still feel like garbage about it all. On top of which AF is showing later than usual which is messing with my head.

@Crystal: I won't be able to have kids unless I have surgery to get rid of a partial septum. I'm going for a consult but I'm unsure about going under/IVs/surgery. Consultation with the surgeon is on Sept 25.

The RE said yes, there are people have have kids with a partial or full septum, but at almost 2 years in I've never even had a let alone anything else, so this is her recommendation. She did say all of DH's tests were great, my hormones are good and lots of healthy eggs.

@organicmama: Sending & I think if you at least hold out some hope while NTNP, then maybe you will be blessed with #2 on God's time. I'm sorry that clomid didn't work for you & that you're in between ins coverages.

My DH & I are finding it is really hard to work through what is available as far as intervention & what are we willing to do, too--for all kinds of reasons (our beliefs, monetarily, practicality...). In our wtf appt with the RE this week she recommended a few cycles of IUI & if that doesn't work, IVF. I've been a little excited & a little upset in needing to process those options. We'll likely do the medium stim IUI cycle(s) starting next cycle (mid Sept). Uggh.
@babycanuck: yep, babies everywhere for everyone else... I feel your pain. to you.

I'm still here. Hanging out at 9 or 10DPO. Trying my hardest to stay uninvolved and unconcerned this month. We had bad timing, so I'm just trying to convince myself that AF will be here shortly and not to test for a few days.

I'm still around. Just over ttc. September makes a year of trying, even though I try to rationalize that we've missed two months due to travel. My doctor told me a years a year, and she doesn't think an extra two months waiting to see an RE will make a difference. Today is cd 3, and I have an apt with the RE Sept 12. I don't really know what to expect.

@babycanuck: oh friend, I'm so sorry. Big hugs. I hope the surgeon can provide some clarification, and that it will be an easy fix that gives you the magic combo you need.

@Marfi: thanks!

@GoGoSnoGirl: I'm slowly wading my way in the IF boards. I hate that any of us have to face that.

@Keppa: I'm right there with you. We hit 1 day during fertile week, so I'm trying to just ignore it this month.

@busylizzy111: big hugs. That also happened to me while poas once- so freaking annoying. Take it easy today and be good to yourself.

@dc yoga bee: I was over it through much of July and August. I can completely understand. I hope the re is able to offer a quick and simple fix that gets you your baby.

DH and I have been given the official diagnosis of infertile, and are at 15 months of trying. Re appt is in October, so I guess that means we just keep trying til then. It almost feels like a lost cause at this point and that it's never going to happen. I'm trying to have faith, but it is so hard to keep it up day after day, month after month.

@organicmama: I'm trying to figure out if God is trying to teach me a lesson in all this, or if maybe kids aren't my path. I refuse to believe I wasn't made to be a mother, so I don't know what else it could be...

Hey ladies… I'll see you over in September!… I had a bfn today, beta tmw…we shall see. FX. I'm on the progesterone suppositories which are making me feel miserable. And, I have a cold on top of it. And the progesterone is probably giving me false hope as my temps are still high (higher than my norm) and no AF…and I have read it can keep you from getting AF. But who really knows? Feeling down about ttc… I also wish I wasn't sick!