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  1. pregnantbee

    grapefruit / 4717 posts

    Good luck today. You have all of the laws on your side. I really hope you get what you need, and I'll be anxiously waiting for updates.

  2. heartonastring

    pomegranate / 3895 posts

    Thinking good thoughts for you! I hate that you're having to deal with this

  3. greenebee

    cherry / 189 posts

    So sorry to hear this! Good luck and I hope it works out for the best!

  4. BabyBoecksMom

    GOLD / papaya / 10166 posts

    @cmomma17: @Brownie had a very good comment about how a break under 20 min should be paid, direct from the VA department of labor.

  5. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    Good luck. I've been thinking about you and this garbage all day.

  6. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    Good luck at your meeting! It's in 30 minutes, right?? I know it's going to be hard, but try to stay calm and let them do most of the talking and reiterate back in your own words what they are saying to you! *hug* I hope it goes okay!

  7. LindsayInNY

    bananas / 9229 posts

    Good luck today!!! I hope it goes positively

  8. .twist.

    pineapple / 12802 posts

    aaaah. This is all terrible! So sorry you're having to deal with this!

    Good Luck today!!!!!!!!!!! Let us know how it goes!

  9. cmomma17

    honeydew / 7811 posts

    8 minutes to go ... so nervous!
    I have all laws printed (thanks to all who provided links). I have notes for what I want to say/mention and questions I want answered.
    I am going to follow your good advice here and mostly listen, repeat back what they say and take copious notes. If I am brave I will let them know I feel retaliated and discriminated against. Recording is allowed in our state, without their consent, I confirmed with a local lawyer (my prior job was in a courthouse).
    I have already pumped 1/2 my usual output today due to the stress I don't know what I'd do if I didn't have a freezer stash.
    Also, I did send the president an email asking for a meeting (on the advice of another long time staff member here who is also good personal friends with her).

    THANKS FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART for all of your support, advice and insight. I'm overwhelmed.

  10. Meltini

    apricot / 495 posts

    Good luck!

  11. anbanan15

    grapefruit / 4681 posts

    Good luck!

    I have been following along, but have little to add as you have already been given such great advice by some wonderful bees! I hope you are able to find a solution that both works for you and satisfies your employer. Huggsss

  12. Dandelion

    watermelon / 14206 posts

    @cmomma17: Good luck! Glad you have a few good people in your corner!

  13. birdofafeather

    pineapple / 12053 posts

    Good luck!! Thinking of you now!!

  14. tysonja

    nectarine / 2217 posts

    thinking of you!

  15. brownie

    grapefruit / 4110 posts

    @cmomma17: You can do this. The one thing that kept me strong through my fight against discrimination (thus the knowledge on laws) was that I was doing what was best for my baby. And that ultimately was more important than a job.

  16. cascademom

    coconut / 8861 posts

    Good luck! I'm hoping for a positive outcome for you today.

  17. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    Thinking of you now!! Sending good thoughts your way! Hope we hear good news from you soon!

  18. mrskc

    bananas / 9357 posts

    Thinking of you! Hope it's going ok. I think it's 2 pm on east coast, right?

  19. mrsmenow

    persimmon / 1479 posts

    It sounds like you are well prepared, hopefully everything will get straightened out and this whole mess will be over! Good luck!

  20. dagret

    grapefruit / 4235 posts

    @cmomma17: GOOD LUCK! I am really hoping that everything goes well for you today. Big hugs!

  21. avivoca

    watermelon / 14467 posts

    I know you're in your meeting right now, but I'm rooting for you and I hope that everything goes well!

  22. MapleMoose

    grapefruit / 4213 posts

    Good luck in your meeting right now. *hugs*

  23. tequiero21

    honeydew / 7968 posts

    Rooting for u too!!!

  24. Mommy Finger

    pomegranate / 3272 posts

    Am I the only one who keeps refreshing this thread looking for updates????

  25. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @MUI831: Nope! I keep refreshing too!

  26. jmarionsmith

    nectarine / 2132 posts

    @MUI831: nope!! i've been doing it since 2 pm est!

  27. petunia354

    pomegranate / 3863 posts

    Have been following this thread but don't have any advice that hasn't already been mentioned. I'm hoping you come back with good news!! I'm on the edge of my seat, as pathetic as that sounds...

  28. Mrs. High Heels

    blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts

    @MUI831: @Adira: same here!

  29. swurlygurl

    honeydew / 7091 posts

    Good luck!!! I really hope you get some good resolve from this meeting and that you don't have to meet with the President.

    Sending lots of successful thoughts your way!

  30. doodlepoodle

    grapefruit / 4136 posts

    Constantly checking! I'm on pins and needles!!!

  31. katsupgirl

    nectarine / 2280 posts

    @MUI831: nope. I hope it turns around so her boss gets in trouble.

  32. Mrs. Lemon-Lime

    wonderful pea / 17279 posts

    What is taking so long???

    Edit: maybe Comma is demonstrating the time it takes to get from one building to the next to pump.

  33. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @Mrs. Lemon-Lime: Maybe it's an hour long meeting. Or all the way across the campus like the pumping room!

  34. Mrs. Lemon-Lime

    wonderful pea / 17279 posts

    @Adira: yeah lol

  35. mrskc

    bananas / 9357 posts

    I keep checking for an update too! Hope it's going ok!

  36. petunia354

    pomegranate / 3863 posts

    hopefully it's taking this long because she is putting the smack down on her boss!!!!!

  37. Dandelion

    watermelon / 14206 posts

    I love this...I think if we were all in person, we'd be waiting outside the HR office for her, lol

  38. Crisark

    pomegranate / 3398 posts

    Hope things are going ok!

  39. crunch

    cherry / 186 posts

    Ugh I just caught up to this thread and I am pissed that a woman with authority would be so unsupportive. I'm hoping you can face and talk to her about it too since she seems to be so uncomfortable about it that she can't talk to you about it first before going to HR. I'm hoping your meeting goes very well and you get an extra 8 oz of pumped milk today!! We are cheering for you!

  40. mrs. wagon

    blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts

    I am totally refreshing like crazy!! Fingers crossed that everything is going awesome.

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