grapefruit / 4717 posts
Good luck today. You have all of the laws on your side. I really hope you get what you need, and I'll be anxiously waiting for updates.
pomegranate / 3895 posts
Thinking good thoughts for you! I hate that you're having to deal with this
GOLD / papaya / 10166 posts
@cmomma17: @Brownie had a very good comment about how a break under 20 min should be paid, direct from the VA department of labor.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
Good luck at your meeting! It's in 30 minutes, right?? I know it's going to be hard, but try to stay calm and let them do most of the talking and reiterate back in your own words what they are saying to you! *hug* I hope it goes okay!
pineapple / 12802 posts
aaaah. This is all terrible! So sorry you're having to deal with this!
Good Luck today!!!!!!!!!!! Let us know how it goes!
honeydew / 7811 posts
8 minutes to go ... so nervous!
I have all laws printed (thanks to all who provided links). I have notes for what I want to say/mention and questions I want answered.
I am going to follow your good advice here and mostly listen, repeat back what they say and take copious notes. If I am brave I will let them know I feel retaliated and discriminated against. Recording is allowed in our state, without their consent, I confirmed with a local lawyer (my prior job was in a courthouse).
I have already pumped 1/2 my usual output today due to the stress I don't know what I'd do if I didn't have a freezer stash.
Also, I did send the president an email asking for a meeting (on the advice of another long time staff member here who is also good personal friends with her).
THANKS FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART for all of your support, advice and insight. I'm overwhelmed.
grapefruit / 4681 posts
Good luck!
I have been following along, but have little to add as you have already been given such great advice by some wonderful bees! I hope you are able to find a solution that both works for you and satisfies your employer. Huggsss
watermelon / 14206 posts
@cmomma17: Good luck! Glad you have a few good people in your corner!
grapefruit / 4110 posts
@cmomma17: You can do this. The one thing that kept me strong through my fight against discrimination (thus the knowledge on laws) was that I was doing what was best for my baby. And that ultimately was more important than a job.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
Thinking of you now!! Sending good thoughts your way! Hope we hear good news from you soon!
bananas / 9357 posts
Thinking of you! Hope it's going ok. I think it's 2 pm on east coast, right?
persimmon / 1479 posts
It sounds like you are well prepared, hopefully everything will get straightened out and this whole mess will be over! Good luck!
grapefruit / 4235 posts
@cmomma17: GOOD LUCK! I am really hoping that everything goes well for you today. Big hugs!
watermelon / 14467 posts
I know you're in your meeting right now, but I'm rooting for you and I hope that everything goes well!
pomegranate / 3272 posts
Am I the only one who keeps refreshing this thread looking for updates????
pomegranate / 3863 posts
Have been following this thread but don't have any advice that hasn't already been mentioned. I'm hoping you come back with good news!! I'm on the edge of my seat, as pathetic as that sounds...
honeydew / 7091 posts
Good luck!!! I really hope you get some good resolve from this meeting and that you don't have to meet with the President.
Sending lots of successful thoughts your way!
nectarine / 2280 posts
@MUI831: nope. I hope it turns around so her boss gets in trouble.
wonderful pea / 17279 posts
What is taking so long???
Edit: maybe Comma is demonstrating the time it takes to get from one building to the next to pump.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: Maybe it's an hour long meeting. Or all the way across the campus like the pumping room!
pomegranate / 3863 posts
hopefully it's taking this long because she is putting the smack down on her boss!!!!!
watermelon / 14206 posts
I love this...I think if we were all in person, we'd be waiting outside the HR office for her, lol
cherry / 186 posts
Ugh I just caught up to this thread and I am pissed that a woman with authority would be so unsupportive. I'm hoping you can face and talk to her about it too since she seems to be so uncomfortable about it that she can't talk to you about it first before going to HR. I'm hoping your meeting goes very well and you get an extra 8 oz of pumped milk today!! We are cheering for you!
blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts
I am totally refreshing like crazy!! Fingers crossed that everything is going awesome.
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