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  • poll: If you got pregnant on Birth Control which were you on?
    Pill : (6 votes)
    20 %
    IUD : (1 votes)
    3 %
    Arm implant : (0 votes)
    Condoms : (3 votes)
    10 %
    Diaphragm : (0 votes)
    Female condom : (1 votes)
    3 %
    Pull out : (10 votes)
    33 %
    Timing method : (9 votes)
    30 %
    Vasectomy : (0 votes)
  1. coopsmama

    cantaloupe / 6059 posts

    @Rainbow Sprinkles: Woohoo! Congrats!

  2. FaithFertility

    eggplant / 11861 posts

    @Rainbow Sprinkles: ohh my she is special Congratulations

  3. Torchwood

    pomelo / 5607 posts

    @coopsmama: @Rainbow Sprinkles: @FaithFertility: Condoms are only 95% effective when used correctly. I don't know if that takes into account breakage, but there's still always going to be a chance that there are small defects that allow sperm through, even if you can't see it. Sperm are tiny, and it only takes one! Pull-out is actually 97% effective if used correctly, so despite its bad rap it's better than condoms. The catch is that condoms are easier to use correctly. But we used pull-out for 8 years with no accidents, then got pregnant in 1 try 3 times and 2 tries once, so clearly it was working.

  4. Foodnerd81

    wonderful cherry / 21504 posts

    @Torchwood: I think the problem with pull out C's condoms is the user error is much higher and it's entirely in the guy, where with condoms, the woman knows if he's wearing one or not, you know? Not saying it's not a good option for some.

  5. Dandelion

    watermelon / 14206 posts

    One of my pregnancies was on the nuva ring but it wasn't an option to select.

  6. Torchwood

    pomelo / 5607 posts

    @Foodnerd81: Oh, it's definitely not the best option for everyone. I would never counsel someone that's not very responsible, and in a committed relationship with a man they trust to use it. It definitely requires some self-control on his part. We actually got pregnant this time because DH decided not to at the last minute, but he knew I was ready to start TTC and we were just waiting on him, so it was fine.

  7. turquoisemama

    persimmon / 1481 posts

    @Mrs. Jacks: Well your story is nothing short of magical and I guess sometimes God has plans bigger than what we know!

  8. Mrs. Jacks

    blogger / pineapple / 12381 posts

    @MrsHansen82: seriously!

  9. ChiCalGoBee

    nectarine / 2028 posts

    @Mrs. Jacks: So glad Theo made his way to you!! But I'm counting on being in that 99% until we remove it...but you're right, 99% still means a chance I guess!

  10. ChiCalGoBee

    nectarine / 2028 posts

    @Dandelion: I know of three other women who got pregnant on the nuva ring, too...

  11. lady baltimore

    persimmon / 1196 posts

    My brother beat an IUD. My niece and nephew were both conceived despite SiL being "on the pill", though I haven't asked about how faithfully she was taking it. There were some rumblings about Oktoberfest bearing some responsibility for my niece, so . . .

  12. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    @Rainbow Sprinkles: congratulations!!

    @Mrs. Jacks: slightly off topic, but I didn't realize IUD pregnancies could be viable! I just sorta assumed that they wouldn't be. Add another layer to Theo's amazing story!

  13. Mrs. Jacks

    blogger / pineapple / 12381 posts

    @LovelyPlum: I was chatting with my OB yesterday and sharing the story with her. She said that if the device is not placed correctly in the uterus, there is a vanishingly small but non-zero chance that a pregnancy could survive.

    I just can't get over the fact that he was conceived about a week after I miscarried, despite those odds. I feel like we were frantic to find each other-his little soul and mine!

  14. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @Mrs. Jacks: Just had to say that is so beautiful. During your tears and sorrow, he was making his way to you.

  15. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    @Mrs. Jacks: wow, that is amazing. His soul and yours clearly need each other

  16. Mrs. Jacks

    blogger / pineapple / 12381 posts

    @simplyfelicity: @LovelyPlum: It brings me such peace to know that. Mama S and I figured this out during the NICU stay... When we did, I cried. All the suffering and pain that we both went through made so much sense after that.

  17. nana87

    cantaloupe / 6171 posts

    @Mrs. Jacks:

  18. Mrs. Pen

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts

    @Rainbow Sprinkles: ahhhhh I just saw that it's a girl!! HOW FUN!!! so exciting!! Three sisters!

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