back in the spring, my good girlfriend asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding, and i accepted (duh!). and i told her that we were likely going to ttc some time soon.

anyway, last month she said they were looking to schedule the wedding for late july, a whole 6 weeks past my due date. so i figured i'd be in the clear and could hold off on telling her that we were pregnant.

we're meeting for dinner tomorrow night, so we're planning to tell them our news over dinner. but uh oh, she just emailed me this morning to say that they are looking at a different venue, and are leaning towards an earlier date -- either 1 week or 2 weeks right after our due date. eeks!

we're still going to tell them over dinner tomorrow, but my question is ... should i offer to bow out as a bridesmaid?