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Could this be a miscarriage?

  1. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    You ladies are so wonderful. I'm so appreciative of the love and support I receive here at Hellobee!

    I believe I've stopped spotting, so I think that's a good sign. I'm about to head to my appointment, so I'll definitely update you ladies after and let you know how it goes! Keeping my fingers crossed!

  2. Smurfette

    GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts

    @Adira: so glad to hear the spotting stopped. Let us know how your appointment goes! Fingers crossed for you!

  3. oliviaoblivia

    pineapple / 12793 posts

    @Adira: I'm so glad the spotting has stopped! Good luck at your appointment, keep us posted!

  4. Mrs. Stroller

    blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts

    I just held my breath as I read through all the comments. I'm thinking of you and hope all is going ok at your appointment right now.

  5. lilteacherbee

    cantaloupe / 6791 posts

    @Adira: Glad to hear the spotting has stopped! I've got my fingers and toes crossed for you!!

  6. dc yoga bee

    grapefruit / 4770 posts

    Keeping you in my thoughts. Hope all goes well.

  7. photojane

    cantaloupe / 6164 posts

    Praying for you this morning! Hope you get some good news.

  8. Andrea

    GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts

    I am so glad it stopped!!

  9. GreenThumb

    pear / 1986 posts

    @Adira: I definitely hope that things are looking up for you! Best wishes!

  10. sorrycharlie

    hostess / watermelon / 14932 posts

    That sounds like a good sign! Keep us posted today!

  11. LuLu Mom

    GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts

    Thinking about you, let us know what the doctor says!

  12. mrsmenow

    persimmon / 1479 posts

    Good luck at your appointment today!

  13. DillonLion

    GOLD / eggplant / 11517 posts

    Good luck today! I hope everything goes well.

  14. Mrs. Blue

    blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts

    Thinking about you this morning. Hope the appointment goes well!

  15. Alivoo01

    wonderful olive / 19353 posts

    Keeping positive thoughts for you this morning!

  16. Mrs. High Heels

    blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts

    @adira - good to hear the spotting stopped. i've been holding my breath waiting for an update. sending good thoughts your way!!!

  17. JoJoGirl

    cantaloupe / 6206 posts

    Thinking about you!

  18. mrskc

    bananas / 9357 posts

    Thinking of you today!

  19. sslm

    cantaloupe / 6397 posts

    Thinking about you and hoping for good news!

  20. ladybee

    grapefruit / 4079 posts

    Thinking of you! Keep us posted!

  21. shinystraps

    apricot / 348 posts

    Waiting for news and hoping that your appointment is going well! Praying for a healthy baby!

  22. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    You girls are so wonderful! *hugs*

    Sorry it's taken me so long to get back to you all. As soon as I got back to work after my appointment, I got dragged into a meeting!

    Anyway... my appointment seemed to go well. The nurse that I spoke to didn't sound overly concerned. I DID start spotting again though - I had to give a urine sample so they could confirm the pregnancy and there was more brown blood when I did that. The nurse did an exam and she also noticed some "brown discharge" that she cleaned up for me. She told me that my cervix was still closed, so I wasn't actively having a miscarriage and that everything looked fine. She told me there were a few reasons I could be seeing blood and that it's probably nothing to worry about, but she did have me give blood so they could do some tests and I have a "viability scan" tomorrow. I'm not sure if they'll tell me at that appointment if everything looks good or if I'll have to wait for a doctor to call me, but I'm hoping that sometime tomorrow I'll know if everything's fine or not.

  23. Shutterbug

    grapefruit / 4703 posts

    @Adira: Phew! Sounds like good news

  24. littlebug

    honeydew / 7504 posts

    @Adira: Well sounds like good news so far! Keeping my fingers crossed that the scan goes well tomorrow!

  25. shinystraps

    apricot / 348 posts

    @Adira: Oh I'm so glad for good news and hoping for continued good news! A closed cervix is very promising!

    How are you emotionally? Scared and stressed or hanging in there ok? Sometimes the emotional part can be worse than the physical aspects...

  26. Running Elley

    coconut / 8681 posts

    @Adira: Closed cervix is definitely a good sign! I'll be sending more positive thoughts for tomorrow!

  27. prettylizy

    GOLD / papaya / 10206 posts

    @Adira: this sounds like good news. Keep us posted, we're pulling for you!

  28. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    Thank you ladies!!! I will definitely keep everyone updated on what happens tomorrow! I was soooo bummed they couldn't fit me in today (well, technically they had something available for the middle of the day, but I had already missed so much work and I have two more appointments coming up, that I didn't feel comfortable taking it). I know that it's normally a tech that does the ultrasound and they're not supposed to tell you anything, but I hope that if everything looks okay, they DO tell me. I don't know how long I'll have to wait to find out the results.

    @beka: I'm okay I think, haha. I was doing fine and feeling really positive this morning, but then I saw more blood and started to totally freak out! You know how when you're at the doctor's and you're just waiting in the exam room to come in? They really shouldn't let me do that because my mind was just RACING and I just kept praying that everything was okay! Hearing that my cervix was closed DEFINITELY was a relief, and my nurse was sooooo reassuring and she really seemed to believe that everything was probably fine. So I think I'm cautiously optimistic. I just want to go to the ultrasound tomorrow and hopefully get good news! I think as long as there is a heartbeat, I'll feel sooooooo much better, haha.

  29. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    Oh, I forgot to mention this. The nurse also said that since the cramping I was experiencing was mild and not severe or intense, then it's probably just my uterus expanding, and not anything worrying. Obviously until they do the ultrasound, they won't actually know what's going on, but she seemed to think my symptoms sounded fairly normal and that I was probably okay. So I have my fingers crossed!

  30. Alivoo01

    wonderful olive / 19353 posts

    That's an awesome update of wonderful news!

  31. purrpletulips

    pomegranate / 3414 posts

    Keeping positive thoughts coming your way. I know when my friend had a problematic ultrasound the doctor came in right away to tell her rather than making her wait. When I had my last U/S the tech stepped out and checked with the doctor before releasing us just so we wouldn't have to wait for results; hoping they do the same for you (either way).

  32. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @purrpletulips: Oh yes, I hope you're right and they do the same for me! I know that with my doctor's office, any of your lab results will be available on-line for you to review, so often they don't tell you stuff if everything's fine because you can just look at the results yourself. My nurse did say that she'd make sure I didn't find out on-line if something was wrong though. Hopefully I find out immediately (or soonish) either way.

  33. Boogs

    hostess / papaya / 10540 posts

    @Adira: Hoping you get some results online, then. I've been thinking of you so hope all turns out well!

  34. Smurfette

    GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts

    So glad that things are looking good! Closed cervix is definitely a good sign! My doctor just told me that cramping is perfectly normal too, when I asked her about mine. Keep us posted about your ultrasound tomorrow!!! Will keep you in my thoughts!

  35. MaisyMay

    GOLD / cantaloupe / 6703 posts

    When it comes to cramping, it's "period-like" cramping that concerns them the most. If the cramping tends to be localized to one side or not as low down as period cramping, it's less worrysome.

  36. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @MaisyMay: Thanks for that tid-bit! For me, it's hard to know what's normal or not because I generally don't experience much cramping during my period (I know, I know, I'm lucky). So I don't know if these are period-like or not. I just know they are mild and they do seem localized to one side, so that sounds like its less worrysome.

  37. ladyfingers

    pomelo / 5331 posts

    That sounds like good news! I don't know how it goes in your office, but the ultrasound tech in our office is fully certified or whatever, so she's the one who tells you on the spot what's going on. I think if there's something problematic, she would go get the doctor but if it's just "this is great, here's the baby, here's the heartbeat," then you don't have to wait for a doctor. But I know not all offices are like that. Hope you don't have to wait too long either way!

  38. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @ladyfingers: Oh man, I hope the same is true at my doctor's office! I hope that if everything looks good, they'll just tell me immediately. If I have to wait for a doctor, I'm going to be FREAKING out and assume the worst!!! Either way, I'll definitely let everyone know! Tomorrow can't come soon enough!

  39. sorrycharlie

    hostess / watermelon / 14932 posts

    @Adira: glad to hear so far, so good! I've never had a miscarriage, but as far as the cramping, I had period-like dull cramps for almost my entire first trimester and everything was fine (no bleeding, though). So I think no matter what, if you're worried, to check with the doctor because every case is so different.

  40. calsmom

    persimmon / 1087 posts

    @Adira: Just wanted to pop in and say that I'm wishing the very best for you! Everything sounds good from what you are describing! This is such a wonderful community of women

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