Just caught the movie crazy, stupid, love several nights ago...great movie btw!
Out of curiosity, did you marry your first love?
I personally did not marry my first love and honestly could not see myself marrying him either. But what's your stand on marrying first loves...romantic or antiquated?
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
Yes I did. We met freshmen year in college which was back in 1997 and have been together ever since so I am cool with the concept. 
pomegranate / 3516 posts
I did. We met when we were just shy of turning 18. Now we're 23 going on 24 and still super happy together. So it definitely works for some people.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
Nope. He's the 3rd. And I was his 3rd. I was 22 (almost 23) and he was 24 (almost 25) when we met... each of us had 1 serious HS and 1 serious college relationship. Third times a charm clearly!
nectarine / 2019 posts
We were both married before to our high school sweethearts and we both got divorced 
So yes I guess, but it didn't work out.
Then we each had one serious relationship in between and then found each other.
apricot / 441 posts
I think it depends on what you consider your first love. I was really love with my first boyfriend, and definitely would consider him my "first" love. But now that I'm married to my husband, I realize that it could be so much deeper and more meaningful so I tend to think that he is my first "love".
kiwi / 686 posts
We both married our first love. In fact, the only people we've ever even held hands with or kissed is each other. We're very lucky.
coffee bean / 38 posts
Sure did! He was my first boyfriend and I was his first girlfriend. That being said, we both had crushes on different people when we were younger (started going out when I was 24 and he was 28).
honeydew / 7230 posts
My husband and I are high school sweethearts. I had dated other people and thought I was in love but I really consider my husband my first true love. I'm the only girl my husband's ever dated so I *hope* I'm his first love, haha.
pear / 1616 posts
yes! we started dating in high school and we're about to hit our 10 year dating anniversary!
pear / 1965 posts
Nope! Sure didnt. We both were previously married. So he is like my 3rd. So yeah...looking back I cant imagine being with my 1st love from College. We both turned out to be very different people. My second (ex husband) was an abusive you know what...so glad I got out of that! ; )
persimmon / 1341 posts
My husband wasn't my first boyfriend and wasn't the first person I said "I love you" to or the first person I thought I loved but the longer I'm with him the longer I realize he is the first person I've ever, truly loved. There's no comparison in terms of the feelings I had for ex-boyfriends and the love I have for my husband. Husband wins, hands down.
cantaloupe / 6791 posts
Yes, I did. We started dating at the end of 11th grade when we were 16/17. We broke up for about a year in college (his choice...I was devastated) and I "dated" someone else for a short time. Eventually, we got back together and he proposed less than a year later. We got married at 21/22 after we finished college.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
He is not my first love. But I never loved anyone as much as I love him.
pear / 1639 posts
I didn't marry my first love, and thank goodness! I have learned and grown a lot since my first love, and DH is my true love
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
I didn't, and thank goodness I didn't!
I'm pretty sure I'm my hubby's first love though
pomegranate / 3329 posts
I married before I graduated at 17 years old, divorced 6 years later. Worst relationship ever, words don't even begin to describe it. My husband and I dated for a little while in HS, because of our age difference at the time my parents did approve at all. We ran into eachother a couple years ago, rekindled our love and have been married for a year
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
Nope. I would say the guy I dated in High School was my first love but we weren't meant to be. He was a great person who treated me right and I hope he is with someone wonderful now.
I went through a lot of frogs to meet my prince charming, that's for sure. I could not have found a better match for a life partner than my husband.
cantaloupe / 6171 posts
sort of? I thought I was in love before, but in retrospect it was a pretty silly relationship (my first relationship lasted a year but I was 13-14--it was more drama than "love!"). I don't think I really fell in love until I met DH, but I'd been in relationships before. same thing with him--I was his first real gf even though he'd dated before.
pineapple / 12526 posts
I guess you could say I did. We've been together since we were 18, went to senior prom together and everything. We've been together for 6 years, married for 1 and are expecting a baby.
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