I'm baking M a smash cake for her party. For everyone else I'm undecided on doing cupcakes or a cake??

If it's a cake I plan to cut a 9x13 into the shape of a 1. But I'm not sure that will be enough to feed 32 adults & 8 kids (12m - 9yrs)? I could bake another cake on the side. Or I could bake cupcakes to supplement. In which case should I just make all cupcakes then? But if I do cupcakes I have to spend money on cute wrappers! Hahah I *think* my MIl might have a 9x13 baking pan.

Decisions, decisions!

What should I do??