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I agree- it’s too short to do anything right now anyway. My older daughters hair is similar- on a dry day when she’s worn a hat, it’s just a little wavy. On a humid day right after bath it’s very curly. As it’s gotten longer I use a leave in conditioner spray after bath, and I spray it with water then the leave in conditioner in the morning before I use a wet brush on it. It still looks kind of crazy but I love it. But that short- it’s just gonna do what it wants.

Another great leave in that is really light is kinky curly knot today. O's hair is much, much tighter, but is fine like this so gets weighed down by anything made for coarser hair. I like Shea moisture but I LOVE the kinky curly stuff. You could even start by mixing some with water in a spray bottle if she doesn't have enough hair for it full strength.

@meadow: full disclosure: I didn’t get my curly girls hair cut until she was 4.5, and she still sometimes goes to school with it not even combed. She’s 4. She loves her crazy hair and knows I love her crazy hair. But yeah I see other girls her age (and much younger) with crazy amounts of hair and my kids just don’t have a whole lot of hair.

@meadow: I wasn't sure of her hair type. Here is a great list of product lines for different curly hair types.
https://www.naturallycurly.com/curlreading/home/10-product-lines-gentle-enough-for-your-curly-kiddos

Like others have said, her hair is too short to do much yet. My DD and I both have ringlets. I use Deva Curl Cream when her hair is wet. Just comb it in with a wide tooth comb and don’t touch it after. Just let it air dry. Do not try to brush it when dry.

Seconding lamariniere's Deva Curl recommendation when her hair is long enough. I have 3a curls, too, and love Deva Curl's cream. I put it in when my hair is wet and then wrap my head using the "plopping" method. It cuts down on frizz really well.