We are scheduled to have baby #2 via c section on Friday. DH has lots of vacation (30 days/year). He informed me yesterday he wanted to take a "few days" off prior to Fiday this week to "prepare". I asked him what exactly he needed to do and he said "mentally prepare". I told him he needed to save days for after baby was here and don't see the logic in taking off before she arrives. He does have plenty of vacation, but is only planning to take 1 week off after. Knowing him, he will start to feel guilty and antsy about it towards the end of his time off. I don't want him wasting days beforehand. We got into a tiff about this last night and he pitched nothing short of a tantrum about it. Mind you, I am working up until Thursday as I wanted to have as much time as possible after baby is here (most of which will be unpaid after my vacation is used).

This morning we discussed it and sort of calmed down. Then he proceeds to start playing some war game on Xbox at 7 am super loud while our toddler is still sleeping. He never does this and knows it annoys me to listen to. I retreated upstairs. I feel like he is being super juvenile and maybe dreading the baby coming? He is acting like a 10 yo old. Thoughts? Did anyone's husband take time off before baby came?