LO is 13 weeks old today and we still haven't had sex yet. I'm too scared! Please tell me it's not that bad. I know we should use lots of lube since I'm breastfeeding but I'm afraid I'm going to be so tense I won't enjoy it at all. I feel bad because even when I was pregnant we only had sex a handful of times. (Side note- it wasn't because I didn't want to, he was too freaked out once I popped and he could feel the baby). So it'd been a really long time. Any advice on how to calm myself down?