This might be on the boards already and it might be TMI but how long did you wait post-delivery to get intimate with your SO?
I had a C-Section 5 weeks ago. The bleeding has pretty much stopped besides yellowish discharge and I got the all clear from my doc this week.
I guess I'm dealing with some self-image issues, as I did throughout pregnancy, and am struggling with initiating anything. We went several MONTHS when I was pregnant without and the last time we did was the night before my water broke (I completely believe that wives-tale now!).