Not at all...I'm not even sure why we were casually dating! 
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No. It was very much a summer fling. He actually just got married this weekend.
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Hell no! He was douche magoo rebound city!
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Yup, we were together for almost 7 years when we broke up.
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Nope. We were in high school!
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I guess down the road - he was a really nice guy. He did want to move to where I was, which made me break up with him so I guess my true feelings came out.
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Not at all!
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I did momentarily and realized he was a complete waste of time. Broke up with him within the week.
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I genuinely thought I would marry my last ex. I'm really glad I did not now.
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Oh god, hell no! We dated a year but by the time we broke up, I realized he was a bit of a loser. He ended up going back to and marrying his high school sweetheart (who he cheated on a ton).
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NO WAY. He was a deadbeat stoner who I dated as a rebound. He was hot though. lol
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ditto to @PurplePumps. Thank God that didn't happen!!
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Not the guys I casually dated, but the serious relationship before DH? Yes. But I was 18 and stupid.
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Nope. He was immature and kept saying how we would have to break up after college since his parents would never allow us to get married. He's Indian. I'm Chinese. Yeah totally taboo. I should have dumped him right then and there.
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@loveisstrange: I dated a stoner too. He was shocked when he got fired after he skipped work for a few days! Lol
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@autumnlove: Yeah, mine was unemployed.
I met him at a concert when he was working as a bouncer. He got fired shortly after. He was also like 4 years older than me (I was 18 at the time).He was convinced he was going to be a rockstar.
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@loveisstrange: Haha, my ex/fling was clinging to dreams of playing pro baseball!
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@autumnlove: I had one of those! Never did make it... lol
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@autumnlove: Hahahaha, oh man. I just FB stalked him and he's apparently married now... although he looks exactly the same. Never did get to be a rockstar, I guess!
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@MapleMoose: Haha, my ex was 26 and he stopped playing baseball when he was 15. I just nodded and smiled...haha
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No way. It was my high school sweetheart. He used to bring up getting married and having kids all the time but I usually laughed and made a face. That's kind of when I decided it probably wasn't worth pursuing any longer!
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Yes to the last serious relationship before DH. I dodged a bullet on that one!
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Not really. He's not a bad guy really but we just didn't have very much in common.
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Yes, I considered it. Had I married him, my life would be VERY VERY VERY different (not in a bad way). He was a great guy, but our life goals/paths were not aligned. I'm thoroughly glad I married DH!
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Well the boyfriend before wasn't really serious but I always asked myself "could you marry this guy" if the asnwer is now than I hit the door. He was someone I would consider, but in the end it wasn't meant ot be and we both knew it. We actually got married and had kids weeks within each other, and our kids will go to the same school! ha
Techincally I was hooking up with an ex right before meeting DH, and I alwys thought I was going to marry him, it wasn't until DH treated me with respect and honesty that I realized what a fool I was for so long! Thank goodness for DH
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Yeah. We lived together. I asked him to move out shortly before hooking up with DH (which was just supposed to be a hookup!)
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Ugh, unfortunately yes. I was engaged! Worst mistake ever and I am so glad I called it off when I did. I cringe when I think about what life would be like had I not grown a set of cojones (so to speak) and walked away.
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Yes, we dated through college and after, from ages 19 - 24. When we were 23 (and still happy), I told him that I wanted to be married by age 27, and he looked a bit nervous, haha.
Ultimately, I broke it off because I didn't see us getting married. We really didn't have much in common (or the same taste in anything, music, movies, hobbies) and he didn't have much motivation/drive in his life.
I did get married at age 27 to DH, and 6 years later (we're all 33), my ex is still not married. But at least he has been dating someone seriously for the last 3 years, and I like her.
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No, the only other person I ever thought I'd want to marry was my BF from late high school/early college. Not that we were actually considering it at the time, but if the timing had been right it probably could have worked. But there were many years and a few other guys in between him and DH, and none of them were right for me!
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I think if I had met my ex just a few years later than I did, I would probably have married him. We met when I was 20 and he was 28. We were just in different places in our lives and while we had a really fun year of dating, it just wasn't going to work long term. He wanted to settle down and I was still in the college/party all the time stage. However, if I hadn't met him I wouldn't have met my DH! So I guess things do happen for a reason
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Nope, he was just a short-term fling!
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Not even close!
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If he had asked I would have said yes in a heartbeat, and it probably would have been the biggest mistake of my life.
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No he was good on paper, but his head was not one I wanted to wake up to every morning.
I met him at a concert when he was working as a bouncer. He got fired shortly after. He was also like 4 years older than me (I was 18 at the time).
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