I was in the "date to get married" camp. If I figured out I wasn't gonna marry someone, I would break up with them...
Did you date to have fun? Or to find someone to get married...
I was in the "date to get married" camp. If I figured out I wasn't gonna marry someone, I would break up with them...
Did you date to have fun? Or to find someone to get married...
pomelo / 5178 posts
DH and I got together fairly young (18/19), so I guess all the dating I did before then was for fun. I never considered marrying any of my boyfriends before DH, although I did get a couple proposals.
honeydew / 7586 posts
My husband was supposed to be a rebound. We started dating shortly after I got out of a three year relationship.
Thankfully, things worked out a little differently than I expected!
blogger / pomegranate / 3201 posts
I think marriage was always in the back of my mind, but I did continue to date a couple of people who I never would have married... probably because I didn't want to be single (which is sad).
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
For fun until I started dating DH. Marriage never crossed my mind with other guys.
coconut / 8498 posts
I was a "date to be married" person too. I don't see the point of doing it any other way.
coconut / 8279 posts
I was 19 when I met DH and marriage was probably close to last on my mind, we got married 10+ years later
eggplant / 11824 posts
For fun! Let nature take it's course and enjoy yourself. Marriage isn't the end all of a relationship. I met a lot of interesting people dating; it's ok that I didnt marry them.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
same as you! My first real boyfriend wasn't until I was 18. My parents really instilled in me that casual dating is emotionally harmful for both parties and I saw that firsthand through all my friends in high school and I decided I didn't want to go through that either.
DH was the second guy I officially dated and the only guy I've slept with!! I'm proud of that and so is he.
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