I have no idea why, but it never crossed my mind that someone might not have sex on their wedding night. Did you? Was it anyone's first time and yet still didn't have sex on their wedding night??
I have no idea why, but it never crossed my mind that someone might not have sex on their wedding night. Did you? Was it anyone's first time and yet still didn't have sex on their wedding night??
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grapefruit / 4400 posts
We did, but it wasn't good... we were both exhausted from the day and just did it to do it. LOL.
watermelon / 14467 posts
We did. I was exhausted though, I woke up super early with a horrible allergy attack and we had an evening wedding.
honeydew / 7909 posts
honeydew / 7909 posts
@Beyond2: I didn't realize one was gold and one wasn't. Sorry!
To answer your poll then:
Heck yeah, we did!
pomegranate / 3565 posts
Nope. We were planning to go out with friends after the reception, DH crashed on the recliner instead. It wasn't a big deal since it wasn't our 1st time. We were exhausted!
pomelo / 5093 posts
If I could go back and do it again, I'd leave the entire morning free for us to be alone and go crazy. That way, you start the day off relaxed, and you take the pressure off the night when you're probably exhausted anyway.
olive / 52 posts
Honestly, I don't remember. Which is bad, because it was only a year and a half ago, AND I only had like 1/2 a drink the entire reception, but we were both so exhausted. I'll have to ask DH if he remembers.
bananas / 9899 posts
Yes we did! I was exhausted and had had too much to drink but DH made sure it still happened lol.
kiwi / 726 posts
Nope! Due to my families influence my hubs had far too many shots and I ended up rubbing his back while he puked and then put him to bed. I thought it was hilarious because it's so out of character for him. It also got him to dance, which was great!
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
@Beyond2: hahaha great minds! I started this thread last night!!
clementine / 899 posts
Aunt Flo made an appearance that morning (yeah, the morning of my wedding. Not too impressed) so no, we did not do the nasty.
grapefruit / 4136 posts
Nope! We had a PARTY. If you knew us IRL you'd never question the party DH was passed out in bed with our yellow lab before my bridesmaids had me outta my dress. We'd been together 5 years and it, uh, let's say it wasn't our first time haha!
nectarine / 2019 posts
At first I don't think either of us that we would, but then we started talking about our vows and it turned into sweet love making, which is pretty out of character for us anyway lol
grapefruit / 4545 posts
You betcha! DH felt it was a must...I far prefer our honeymoon encounters...we were just way too exhausted for it to be good!
apricot / 340 posts
HAHA! the hubs passed out (he made the MOST out of the open bar) in his shoes and all so we didnt.
pear / 1809 posts
We didn't. We were both exhausted from all the wedding day activities, and it wasn't our first time, so we decided to skip and wait for our honeymoon.
cherry / 229 posts
We didn't, we were living in college dorm rooms at the time. Sex was hard to come by.... teheheh
coconut / 8854 posts
Nope. We had to drive to the airport which was 2 hrs away to catch a 5 AM flight to leave for our honeymoon! When we checked into our room we did the the day after our wedding!!
clementine / 756 posts
Nope! My husband had a hard time saying no to all the guests who wanted to have a drink with the groom so he was in no shape. My aunt and uncle and cousins drove us back to the hotel where the girls helped me out of my dress and they boys helped my husband keep from making a mess. Which is hysterical, because he isn't the type to drink too much - it's only the second time I've ever seen him drunk. The next day we had our Farewell Breakfast and then caught our flight to Florida (we stayed in my grandma's condo for a week). We got into the condo and unpacked and decided to take a swim and then went to bed... and I'm shocked to say that our first sex as a married couple was the best of my life. Totally unexpected, since we'd been sleeping together for 5 years at that point. But it rocked. Wouldn't change a thing!
hostess / papaya / 10219 posts
Old thread! Nope we didn't. I got my period the morning of my wedding. Awesome timing.
eggplant / 11287 posts
Yes. We didn't really drink and were in our hotel room by 10:45 pm!
persimmon / 1096 posts
No. I was wayyy too tired and DH had one too many shots at our after party. I was so exhausted that I was pretty relieved when he passed out while I was taking my updo out in the bathroom. So romantic
cherry / 117 posts
Nope. We tried. We honestly did. We gave it our all. It was just too much after a VERY long day. We did all our decorations ourselves, woke at 6 am, decorated till 12. Started getting ready at 12, I did the hair and makeup for all the girls since I am a makeup artist, and then the wedding was at 3. We left the reception at about 7:30, then got to our stop point at like 10 pm. We opened cards, giggled like schoolgirls at how much money we got, then tried to have sex. It failed, I cried, then we went to Walmart and Wendy's, then I cried again in the Wendy's parking lot because it had been such a big, overwhelming, long day. (Living in AUS right now, got married in USA)
persimmon / 1259 posts
I answered other...we tried to! I barely ate all day, so it only took two drinks to get me pretty tipsy. We went to our suite after the reception and got in the hot tub to have sex, which we started, but then I got really dizzy, haha! It wasn't a big deal, it definitely wasn't our first time. We ended up putting on PJs and talking about the crazy day until we feel asleep. It was lovely.
cherry / 237 posts
Yep! But after a nap on my part & two hours of pacing on my husband's part, because we ate SO MUCH FOOD.
nectarine / 2262 posts
Yes although it wasn't anything super special, lol. We were so busy and spent literally the whole reception walking around and talking to everyone, a little dancing, etc. and neither one of us ate anything - we didn't sit down the whole time! So when we got to the hotel, we were STARVING so I laid on the bed in my dress and took a 15 minute nap while DH went down to the hotel bar/restaurant and got us burgers. LOL! We had to eat first!
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