We are keeping our lo's name to ourselves until she is born. What did / are you going to do? Why? Did you regret your decision?
We are keeping our lo's name to ourselves until she is born. What did / are you going to do? Why? Did you regret your decision?
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
I'm not pregnant yet and I've told my family and my friends. I'm not telling anyone the names anymore because I don't want any criticism and also getting pregnant is taking longer than we had hoped.
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
We kept LO's name a secret until she was born. We actually didn't come up with a name until a week before I gave birth though. I'm glad we kept it to ourselves. DIdn't want to hear people's opinions and didn't want people calling my LO her name before she was born.
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
We largely kept it a secret except from family and our closest friends. Everyone loved the name so that was nice.
persimmon / 1087 posts
We told whoever wanted to know. We love the name we picked out, and that is all that matters to us.
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
We told everyone. Nobody said anything bad, they all loved her name and said it was perfect. At least to our faces. I loved that we got a lot of personalized things and lots of things with roses on it because her name is rose.
blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts
I'm torn on this. We didn't choose a name for RJ until he was born (and we were team green so we weren't sure yet). Now that we know baby #2 is a girl, we're in the process of choosing a name, and SO many of our friends are pregnant this year, so I'm worried that I'll settle on a name and fall in love with it only to find out that someone else has chosen it as well. I don't think it would make me change my mind but it would definitely make me feel like everyone else thought I'm copying the other person.
I may announce 3 options just to "claim" a name
kiwi / 545 posts
We told people. I didn't care what they thought so I didn't mind sharing. Haha.
clementine / 958 posts
We didn't finalize LO's first name until about a week before she was born, but we shared our top contenders with anyone who asked. For me, I'm glad we waited until after the shower because we got lots of gifts with her name on them after she was born. I think we would have gotten even more if we had announced it before the shower. Personalized stuff is super cute, but not really practical for reusing, loaning, selling, etc in the future.
honeydew / 7968 posts
Told a handful of people the possible names. We're trying to finalize it tonight! My parents are already praying for them using their Korean names, which have been selected for a few weeks now.
persimmon / 1465 posts
We were team green but we didn't tell people our top picks beforehand. We had 3 names for each and were waiting til we met LO to make the final decision, though we had a favourite boy and girl name.
grapefruit / 4681 posts
We told people if they asked, but I did not allow anyone to refer to DS by his name prior to birth. I just felt it was "safer" that way.
pomegranate / 3983 posts
No, because I didn't want any comments one way or the other until it was a done deal. Also, we wanted to made sure the name "matched" LO so we finalized our choice a couple days after he was born.
pomegranate / 3706 posts
No- and it's been a loooong 40 weeks! I'm due on Sunday and can't wait to tell soon- it was DH who insisted on the secrecy and I agreed since it's a way for him to feel more involved. I think it will be a fun surprise now that it's close!
apricot / 384 posts
With DD I wasn't 100% sure until she was born and I saw her little face. DH knew the whole time but I couldn't commit.
Now, we've chosen a name but I get nervous about it so I don't want to tell anyone and hear any comments that might change my mind. I think it's a great name but I'm just worry that I won't like it the day of her birth anymore or it won't be right for her or who knows
hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts
We haven't totally decided yet, but we've narrowed it down to a few. We told family and a few close friends of the names we are thinking of. No one has said anything rude - some have said "oh I like X more than Y" but it really seems split!
pomegranate / 3980 posts
We just told everyone, I saw no reason not to and it's been fine so far everyone seems to love it.
coconut / 8305 posts
Nope... I like having that just between me, DH, and DS. =)
We did tell our moms early on, but then DH's mom shared it like that same instance with his grandma so we didn't share it with anyone else.
Thankfully since then she's kept her trap shut! lol
@betsyboop: I don't like when people ask either... and dislike it even more when I get the stink eye for not sharing. What the heck is wrong with people?! lol
pear / 1861 posts
Yeah, we were Team Green, so it was a toss up anyway. Some didn't like the boy's name, but oh,well. I never care what anyone thinks anyway.
GOLD / papaya / 10206 posts
Nope we kept both our names secret until prettybaby arrived DH announced the name to our families when he announced the gender
hostess / papaya / 10540 posts
I was just trying to keep it to myself, but DH kept blabbing to people even when we weren't quite 100%.
GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts
If people asked we told them but primarily only family and close friends. But it's no big secret because my friend made a name banner for our baby shower and the pictures all over facebook! hahaha.
I can understand why people want to keep it a secret though. Too many opinions and people stealing names!
eggplant / 11287 posts
Nope.
aside from sharing it on some of the forums and with a couple friends who don't know any of my family members.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
We did a name reveal at my baby shower and that was so fun! We made it a word scramble and it was fun seeing what people came up with. Of course we were subject to peoples opinions but we loved the name and that's what mattered to us. Most people liked it though, so that's good.
I don't regret sharing it at all. It would have been hard keeping it to myself, especially since EVERYONE asks that the whole pregnancy.
clementine / 826 posts
I didn't tell anyone outside of my family (ie, mom etc) our firstborn's name until he arrived. In fact, for some people I didn't even tell them I was having a boy! I didn't announce the sex on FB either.
I did the same thing this time as well. I've found that people on FB get really mad that I won't tell them the sex of my baby or her name choices. Just because they announced doesn't mean I need to tell you. Sheesh!
grapefruit / 4056 posts
We are team green, but we have a couple options, we have shared them with a couple people, but we don't tell everyone that asks. From now on we aren't telling anyone else until LO is born (due date is only a month away anyways!)
cantaloupe / 6397 posts
Not pregnant, but we are not telling anyone. Mayyyybe my sister, but no one else.
pomegranate / 3729 posts
We had names picked out right away. We knew if it was a boy, we would be having a Jr. so that was settled. But then we picked out a girl name right away, too. We told our families, and at this point, most people at least know her nickname, since we tend to call her by that the most.
We did get a couple of comments from my Dad about the middle name. His name is Stephen, and his Mom (my grandma's) middle name was Stephanie so we wanted to use something to honor them both for baby girls name. We decided on Stephana and her middle name, since it's a Greek name and DH is Greek. We would have used Stephanie, but her first name rhymes with that, so we didn't want to. Dad was convinced that we just made it up. haha..
grape / 84 posts
We're team green so even when we tell people (just family & friends) it won't be set. We have one boy name we like but have given up with choosing a girls name so we're stuck with a list of 10ish options.
grapefruit / 4800 posts
We did, I'm not good at telling people no. But we didn't decide on a name until about a month before LO was born and once we were set I figured they were going to find out some time.
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