I always wanted three before DS, now if the next one's a girl, I'd be ok with two. Told DH that we'll have to wait and see how i feel even if LO#2 is a boy!
I always wanted three before DS, now if the next one's a girl, I'd be ok with two. Told DH that we'll have to wait and see how i feel even if LO#2 is a boy!
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
Yes, went from 2 to 3 right after #1 was born!
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
we wanted 3 or 4. then I got pregnant with DS and we decided to stop! haha.
papaya / 10343 posts
I think it has made me a bit more apprehensive about having more. I'm only 23 weeks and by all accounts have an "easy" pregnancy and honestly-- I don't like it. I know it will be worth it, but I just don't physically like being pregnant. So I'm not super pumped to do it again, especially knowing the worst is yet to come (3rd tri and birth!) and also that my next pregnancy could easily be much harder than this one.
coconut / 8079 posts
I still want two, but DH & I are rethinking our idea of having them super close together. Pregnancy is tough!
grapefruit / 4049 posts
we always wanted 3, but after each kid, we would say we were done, but still keep open minds. Both times after they turned 2ish, we got baby fever again, so we will be having 3 afterall.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
@Mae: same! i had an average pregnancy, average l&d, DS is an eASY baby and i'm still apprehensive about it!
GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts
Yes, it went from 3 to 2 at most. I seriously considered being one and done for a little while.
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
I think just seeing how expensive things are locked us in at 2.
persimmon / 1355 posts
@T.H.O.U.: same. I wanted three but now we are thinking two. Even with passing stuff down, it's just so expensive and I want to be able to travel with my kids, pay for dance/music/whatever classes, etc.
grape / 78 posts
Dh and I decided on two before lo was born. He still wants two but now I think I want three!
GOLD / pomelo / 5737 posts
I wanted to have two "groups" of two before, but now I just want two. Not really because of pregnancy or even the newborn stage alone...they are expensive! And I don't think I'd have enough time for each.
GOLD / eggplant / 11517 posts
Yes i wanted 2+
Now i am cool with 1. Trying to get DH on board, though
grapefruit / 4582 posts
I really wanted 3, before I got pregnant when I had a toddler to run after I am pretty sure I'll be okay with two but I'm still young...I have time to forget the exhaustion and crave a newborn lol
persimmon / 1194 posts
I originally wanted 4 but after DD I told DH I was ok with 3. He laughed in my face and said we can't handle more than two. Now that #2 is more than likely a girl, I'm hoping he'll change his mind so we can try for a boy. Well see!
coconut / 8681 posts
Nope. I originally wanted 4 and I still do. I dread being pregnant again though...I really hate it.
cantaloupe / 6791 posts
Nope, I still want 3. Even with my insane anxiety and gestational diabetes, I enjoyed pregnancy for the most part.
honeydew / 7295 posts
I still want 3 but my husband only wanted 1 after our son and finally came around to having 2 this summer. Our original idea was to have two then see about a third but now I'm thinking he will need to be done after our next and I'm okay with that.
watermelon / 14206 posts
Yeah I was a flip flopper. While pregnant with S I thought I was done. Then I lost her and got ku again with this one. This one has been a lot more comfortable so now I think I might want one more in a few years.
honeydew / 7909 posts
I loooooooooved being pregnant - but after having a baby I'd settle with 2 instead of wanting 4 previously (and I think dh agrees).
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