My parents paid for my complete college education. But I went to a UC (a state school), and tuition was pretty affordable so I didn't have to take out any loans.
Did you parents pay for your college education? Did you take out loans?
My parents paid for my complete college education. But I went to a UC (a state school), and tuition was pretty affordable so I didn't have to take out any loans.
Did you parents pay for your college education? Did you take out loans?
cantaloupe / 6791 posts
I went to a state school as well. My parents paid half and I have student loans from the other half.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
I was so lucky to have my parents pay for my college education. My husband's parents paid for his, as well. He made it through in 4 years, I did it in 4.5. I don't know how my parents did it, I went to a super expensive private college the first two years. I'm sure they were THRILLED when I came back to MD to go to a state college.
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
Yes, and I went to a really expensive one. But I graduated in 3.5 years so I saved them money!
blogger / pomelo / 5400 posts
Wow, I wish, but they didn't have that kind of extra lying around. My dad helped a little bit, but I was almost exclusively on scholarships and grants.
kiwi / 729 posts
yes, I also went to a state university. My dad also chipped in for a car after I graduated (he paid 1/2, I paid the other 1/2). I am so grateful for that.
hostess / eggplant / 11068 posts
Yes - my parents paid for my and my brother's entire education and I'm SO grateful. My ILs paid for my hubs and BIL's education, too. We are both so grateful that we do not have any student loans.
honeydew / 7968 posts
went to a private school. my parents took out the bulk of the student loans, and my husband paid the bulk of it. =T thanks, husband!
pear / 1764 posts
I went to a state school (yay big 10!!) & my parents paid for all of it because I graduated within 4 years.
coconut / 8234 posts
Nope. I went to a private college and took out loans. Single mom with four kids--my mom couldn't afford to pay.
grapefruit / 4681 posts
My parents paid for what they could of my regular tuition as well as any classes I took that were not covered by regular tuition (over 21 credit, summer classes, and abroad programs). I double majored in 4 years so I took a lot over the regular curriculum.
I went to a very expensive private school and even though I had scholarship money, it really didn't make a dent. I still have a sizable loan to pay back, but am so thankful for the help my parents gave me.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
My parents didn't pay for my college. I had scholarships that covered a little, my husband paid for some, and I took out a loan to cover the rest.
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
My parents didn't pay for my college. They couldn't afford it.
cherry / 235 posts
Yes, they agreed to pay tuition/fees and books for all 5 of us. Anything else was to be paid for some other way. I got 8K in scholarships and my bio dad helped pay for my housing. I also finished in 3 years to keep the cost down.
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
Mine did and I'm so thankful!
They did prepaid for undergrad and then continued to pay my grad school. No loans for me.... so I'm able to be a SAHM now!
blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts
I went to a VERY expensive school and got VERY little financial aid since my dad made too much money at the time (and got laid off just a few years after I graduated). I am completely in the dark about what gets paid for while you're actually at school because my dad took care of everything except spending money (which I worked jobs for). All the loans are in my name, so after I graduated I paid my student loans and my dad would send me a check for half the payment. Recently he had to stop but I didn't mind... we are in very similar financial situations so I'd rather take on the payments myself.
Rob Sr. went to his ivy league expensive school almost for free...!! He claims he just researched and applied for scholarships and workstudy programs and just got a lot of them. And I mean a LOT... his student loan balance (all federal) is MINISCULE compared to mine. And now that he's in academia, he takes classes for graduate degrees for free. After we got married I told him how much my student loan balance was and said "sorry!" Haha... he married into a lot of debt I had a lot of guilt over it while I was a SAHM but now that I'm back on track with my career, I'm feeling good!
cantaloupe / 6669 posts
My parents saved for my college education, which I so appreciate. I had a scholarship, but my college fund didn't end up covering my tuition, books and living expenses completely, so I took out a couple small loans to make up the difference my senior year. Looking back, I could have been more frugal with the money I earned at my part-time job and taken out smaller loans, but hindsight is 20/20! I had a great college experience, so no regrets.
cantaloupe / 6730 posts
I paid for all of it, my parents couldn't have afforded it. It's been 9 years but student loans will be paid off this year! Yippeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
GOLD / papaya / 10206 posts
My dad made us pay tuition and books, and he paid for either housing if we went away or a car if we stayed home to commute. I stayed home and got a pretty sweet set of wheels (Pontiac Sunfire, oh yeah!) and my sister moved away so he paid her rent for 4 years.
I had to take out a student loan to pay my tuition, but finished with less than $17000 in student debt, which should be gone by the end of this year!
coffee bean / 36 posts
My parents paid for college and law school. They didn't go to college themselves, so they really wanted their kids to be able to get as much education as they could. My DH on the other hand has a load of debt from law school. I'm so not excited about paying them off.
GOLD / eggplant / 11517 posts
My grandma invested in a college savings program when I was very young, and by the time I was 18, it covered 4 years of tuition at any public university in Texas.
Room, board, books, etc was not covered, and I was advised by my parents to take out every loan that was offered to me. They did not pay for my college.
I worked part-time for spending money. And now I have lots of loans to pay off.
pear / 1614 posts
They couldn't afford it, so I took out loans for college, med school, and grad school, which now total >300K. Can't wait to pay those babies off, hopefully before I retire!
eggplant / 11824 posts
My parents/scholarships paid for my first year of undergrad, then I switched schools and worked full time and went to school full time and paid for the rest of college myself. I graduated with my B.A. with basically no debt (under 5k in student loans), but post-graduate work did me in.
My husband’s parents paid (I believe) for all his undergrad, but Masters and PhD did him in.
Our loans will be paid off just before LO enters middle school, and that’s with an aggressive payment plan
pomegranate / 3388 posts
Before my grandfather died he made sure to set aside funds so that all of his grandkids could attend whatever colleges they wanted to. I feel ridiculously lucky that I was in this situation... especially since I attended a very expensive private college. So no, my parents didn't pay for my college, but my grandparents did. Now when it's time for our kids to go to college my parents are hoping to pay for their college education. In turn, I will try my very hardest to be able to pay for my grandkids education someday.
coconut / 8299 posts
Nope. I actually took summer jobs during high school to save money. And I also worked during all 4 years of college to pay for my tuition and living expenses. My parents gave me a few hundred dollars month for books and stuff. But most of it I paid on my own. Thankfully I didn't have any student debt when I graduated.
pineapple / 12053 posts
both my and DH's parents paid for our college years through savings. they both had money left in our college savings accounts after we graduated, so i used that to live on after college while i continued some education and DH used it to buy a car!
we're so thankful that we came into our marriage with savings and that's all because our parents were able to save and pay for our education.
persimmon / 1202 posts
Nope. Full-ride scholarship (well, it would've paid for half of my housing, but I lived at home.)
cherry / 127 posts
Yes, my parents paid for all 4 years of mine and my twin brother's in-state undergrad as well as my older brother's private, out-of-state undergrad and med school (I'm convinced he's the favorite and all of our living expenses/books/etc. DH's parents paid for his undergrad and MBA.
It made such a huge difference in our early professional lives to start off with $0 instead of minus $50,000+. We are both extremely grateful to them and hopefully will be able to do the same for our children.
My parents told us from day 1 "we'll pay all of your schooling to get a degree in the field of your choice." Funny enough - I'm almost 30 and decided to get my real estate license and my parents insisted on paying for the 40 hour online class because it still counted as "my education". They're the best!
pear / 1672 posts
My mother paid a little. I grew up with a single mother who didn't make much money. I was only able to afford college with grants, loans and a job during the term and during summers. DH's parents paid for his completely. We both took out loans for our professional degrees.
honeydew / 7504 posts
My parents paid for undergrad for me and my sister. When it came to grad school, my parents told me they'd pay for grad school or a wedding. I chose the wedding. I can take out loans for grad school but not for a wedding! So I paid for (and will for 10 more years) grad school. And my parents threw us a gorgeous wedding! (c:
clementine / 994 posts
I went to a state school (UC also), but my parents didn't pay. They *did* help both of my brothers, who went to private schools. I took out federal loans to cover tuition, books, and rent. My older brother and I were in school at the same time, and I knew it would have been a burden for my parents to help us both. My brother's tuition was much higher than mine so I told my parents that I could handle the loans on my own.
nectarine / 2163 posts
My Dad was going to college at the same time I was, so he had no money left over after paying his own tuition to help with mine. My Mum was raising 3 other teenagers on her own and barely had enough money for that, let alone for my tuition.
Luckily for me, where I'm from student loans come from the government, and are totally interest free as long as I stay in the country. And also, luckily for me, my husband is in a position where, if we do decide to leave the country, he can afford to pay it all off for me
DH paid his own way through school by working, but dropped out before he graduated
persimmon / 1472 posts
My parents couldn't afford to pay for my college tuition but I managed to get a big chunk covered my grants and financial aid, with the remaining balance in student loans. Overall, my loan balance is low compared to my friends since I went to a private university (go Orangemen!). Ever since I got a part time job in high school, I hadn't asked my parents for money - it was enough to pay for my extracurricular activities and I saved enough from summer jobs to pay for my first semester of books. Then I had work study during college to have spending money. Moving off campus junior and senior year also helped since it was much cheaper than dorms and meal plan.
kiwi / 575 posts
I was lucky and my grandfather paid for a large chunk of each of our college education (for all of the grandkids).
My parents covered the rest. In my immediate family, we kids were responsible for all extra expenses but everything school-related was covered. I hope that I can do the same for our little one(s).
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