Hellobee Boards

We rarely have fully blown out fights. Usually, we have a lot of little fights in a row. We'll fight about one thing, take a break. Cook supper, play with Henry. Then we'll come back and try to talk out our thought process or feelings about it all. If that doesn't solve it, we tend to take another break and then have one last stab at it before letting it drop. We try not to go to bed angry, although we'll often go to bed annoyed if we're still on separate sides of the fence...

So what we miss in heat, we make up in longevity I guess? We just don't have time to have a full row with yelling and stuff so we string it along until it gets resolved or forgotten.

I probably pick on the hubby more than I should (telling him to pick up his clothes, quit leaving dishes every where, etc.), but I've tried to be better about how to tell him to do it instead of "nagging" at him. We also very rarely ever argue, but when we do, it gets pretty ugly. However, the hubby is great about making sure we never go to bed upset.

We are full blown fighters. But working on it! the older we get, the less we have them