In our household, I find that it really wears us down that there's never any time to do anything but parent, work or clean. Neither of us is a fan of the "second shift" of working/cleaning after dinner, but it's the only way to get things done!

I think maybe once a week, we don't work after the kids are asleep? Including weekends too.

Do you do a "second shift" of working after the kids are asleep?