Lol...I would never say anything but I definitely doubt some of my friends when they say they don't want anymore kids! I am putting my money on future pregnancy announcements from some these friends!
Lol...I would never say anything but I definitely doubt some of my friends when they say they don't want anymore kids! I am putting my money on future pregnancy announcements from some these friends!
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
How many kids do they already have?
I actually doubt the ones who say they want 5 kids! I think they will stop at 2 or 3.
GOLD / pear / 1845 posts
I doubt them if they only have one baby and it's still really little. Sometimes you feel like you never want to do it again...but then you do.
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
@Andrea: Most of the friends I doubt have one kid going through something...not sleeping through the night, potty training or bad eating habits!
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
Not really. i think some of my friends really do only want one kid. But most of them are in the "never say never" camp.
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
@autumnlove: I have a few friends who I truly believe are stopping at one!
honeydew / 7488 posts
Most of my friends are pretty open about wanting more, and no one is one and done. I do, however, doubt myself when I say I'm done!
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
@Andrea: I have a few one and done friends that I truly believe...but not many!
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
There's a certain someone on here that says she's done and I don't believe her!
I have a friend who got her tubes tied so I know that she's for sure when she says she's done.
pomegranate / 3008 posts
No. Being one of those people that is one and done it can become irritating and hurtful when people think they know you and your future better than you do and continue to tell you that you are wrong or mistaken and will change your mind. Perhaps I've had a poor experience with others sharing their opinions a little too freely.
bananas / 9227 posts
@Mrs. Superhero: I totally fall into this category! I almost written off another baby entirely. But now, I don't know ...
As for doubting ppl, I don't really have any friends that say this since most of them had their kids way before me. A few say they want another baby - I doubt that more. They usually just say it in passing.
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
Most of my friends are just starting to have babies so no one is really saying that now. My brother and SIL are one and done and I believe them-- they were older when they started and are very happy with the one. My mom expresses her doubts, and her concerns about their age for when they change their mind. She only says it to me and my sisters, not my brother or SIL, but it still pisses me off for their sake.
honeydew / 7586 posts
We plan on being one and done and I hate when everyone tells us that we will change our minds. DH is planning on getting a vasectomy so I think the chances are pretty slim that we will ever go back on our decision.
pineapple / 12234 posts
Nah, I usually believe people when they say they are done (sometimes I think it's sad if they are really awesome parents or made cute kids but I usually don't say anything).
I was one of those people who said one and done but I am SO glad we had two.
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