Do you completely pool money in one account or do you have separate accounts as well? Why did you set up this way? What would you change?
I'm really intrigued by couples personal finances!
Personally, we got a joint account before we were even engaged in college. All of our money is in joint accounts and we discuss all purchases. Neither of us have any separate funds, and our unwritten rule of thumb is that we usually discuss any personal purchases over $50 (obviously not groceries, etc). The only time it's tricky is holidays, but we usually either know what the other is getting us or use cash for purchases. I wouldn't change a thing about our set-up - completely open book.