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Do you tell people "Happy Holidays" or "Merry Christmas"?

  1. LuLu Mom

    GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts

    I say Merry Christmas for the majority, however if I"m interacting with someone I have never met I will say Happy Holidays as not to offend. Most people in my life are Christian (and in my area) so I have never thought about offending someone, makes me think about it a little big more

  2. Weagle

    coconut / 8498 posts

    I say Merry Christmas mostly, but probably because I'm just used to it. I think this article very well expresses my thoughts on it...

    http://www.9marks.org/blog/defense-happy-holidays

  3. BSB

    hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts

    When I say it, I say 'Merry Christmas.' When I write it, I say 'Happy Holidays'. I just don't think about when I say it. I'm usually really considerate of people. I think this thread will remind me to stop saying 'Merry Christmas'.

  4. prettylizy

    GOLD / papaya / 10206 posts

    I'm a 'judge the situation' type of person I guess. If I'm at the grocery store and the cashier has a santa hat pinned to her smock, I say Merry Christmas, if I'm unsure it's usually Happy Holidays. I worked with a woman who is a Jehovas Witness and she didn't celebrate Christmas (though her husband did and she truly enjoyed the holiday spirit and cheer) and she wouldn't get fussed if people wished her Happy Holidays, she would just wish them the same. I asked her about it one, and she said she just got sick of explaining to people that she didn't celebrate!

  5. eupenmalmody

    cherry / 135 posts

    I always said Merry Christmas until I moved to NYC. Now, it's Happy Holidays. I think especially in NYC where it is so diverse one needs to be cognizant of other beliefs!

  6. Mrs.KMM

    grapefruit / 4355 posts

    I typically say Merry Christmas but will also on occasion say Happy Holidays.

    Personally, I think people need to stop trying to be offended by everything. I'm not Jewish but if someone said "Happy Hanukkah" to me, I wouldn't be offended in the least. The intent and purpose behind the message is wishing me well, no matter what terminology they use.

  7. sbjmorgan

    grape / 81 posts

    Happy Holidays. Most people don't find "Merry Christmas" offensive, but there's more than one holiday during this time of year - New Years, too!

  8. BSB

    hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts

    Bumping this old thread. We just ordered our Holiday cards and DH wanted it to say 'Merry Christmas' and I wanted to be PC and say 'Happy Holidays.'

    I was going to let him 'win' and do Merry Christmas but, at the last minute, I changed it. He isn't that bothered by it. I was the one who initiated the holiday card and created the card so it wasn't a big issue. He was mainly concerned with making sure the photo we took didn't clash with the design I picked out. He decided on the design so we are both happy at this point.

  9. lovehoneybee

    GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts

    @bluestriped bee: Ours say "Warm Wishes, love the McK family". Last year I think it was something like "May your holiday season be warm and bright" (and had a picture of E holding a tangle of Christmas lights).

    I say Merry Christmas to my family and Happy Holidays to everyone else. Or if I'm feeling a little cheeky I say "Happy EVERYTHING!"

  10. jedeve

    pomegranate / 3643 posts

    I feel like I don't go around saying either.

    I would put Merry Christmas on our holiday cards though. That's what we celebrate. I wouldn't be offended to get a Happy Hanukkah card. (Not saying that I wouldn't be annoyed by Christmas if I were Jewish.) But I do tend to send ones that are more like "peace on earth" to people I know who aren't religious.

  11. HabesBabe

    grapefruit / 4400 posts

    I usually say "Merry Christmas" out loud, but our holiday cards say "Happy Holidays" or "Season's Greetings"... 6 years of working for Disney has made me semi-PC.

  12. Greentea

    pomelo / 5678 posts

    I say happy holidays. Unless I am with family.

  13. swurlygurl

    honeydew / 7091 posts

    I say Merry Christmas, but I know that the people I interact with DO celebrate Christmas. If I'm in public with strangers, I don't initiate any sort of holiday greeting, so I just mimic whatever they say. I like to think that if I knew people who didn't celebrate Christmas and/or celebrated other holidays I would aim to be inclusive though.
    I do send a 'Merry Christmas' card to my atheist Aunt, but she celebrates Christmas, just not religiously, so I don't see any harm in that

  14. travellingbee

    hostess / papaya / 10219 posts

    I say happy holidays to strangers or more often just "Have a great day!" But of course I'll say merry Christmas if I'm with people I know celebrate Christmas! I'd feel weird wishing people merry Christmas if they didn't celebrate Christmas. Kinda like wishing people happy birthday on MY birthday because I want to celebrate. But I grew up in NY and around lots of other religions.

  15. nana87

    cantaloupe / 6171 posts

    I'm Jewish and agree completely with what artbee posted! I'm not offended if someone says "Merry Christmas" to me, but I do kind of roll my eyes at the presumption that everyone celebrates xmas. I get that it's meant the best of intentions, but I think the greeting should reflect the person receiving the greeting rather than the person saying it. So, I do say "Merry Christmas" to people who I know are celebrating it, but if it's someone I don't know, I say "Happy Holidays"

  16. pui

    bananas / 9899 posts

    I always say Merry Christmas. The only time I may say Happy Holidays instead is in an email to a client. I'm just not used to saying "Happy Holidays" so I immediately say Merry Christmas.

  17. Mrs. Lemon-Lime

    wonderful pea / 17279 posts

    Season's Greetings...really, I do.

  18. NavyRN2012

    persimmon / 1447 posts

    Merry Christmas!

  19. Mae

    papaya / 10343 posts

    I don't usually say either. I don't really get wishing people either for the whole month of december. I usually just tell people to have a good night/weekend/whatever. And when I think its actually appropriate to use one of these greetings it is like, Christmas day or Christmas eve when I pretty much am only seeing people I know.

    But, I guess if forced to make a decision on stranger my default would probably be Merry Christmas. We live in Ohio, which is very heavily Christian. The biggest religious minority are muslims who are easily identifiable via wardrobe.

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