In my circle of mommy friends, it's pretty typical that we make a (positive) comment about each others' kids when we see them. It's usually just light comments like, "You are talking so well now, such a big girl" or "I like your pretty shirt" - something like that. Or we will tell each other that we like their outfit, they're cute, etc. Just something light but complimentary I have one friend, though, who never, ever says anything positive about our kids, even if we say something to her kid. She just smiles and agrees w/whatever we said, but doesn't say anything else.

I know this is such a random post, but I've been hanging out with her consistently over the past few months and yesterday just realized - hey, she never once said anything nice about our kids!

Do you usually say something nice to your friend's kids?