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Do you vaccinate? Why/why not?

  1. littlebittyhouse

    pear / 1570 posts

    We vaccinate. However, we did delay the rotovirus because LO seems to react poorly to that one. He is fully vaccinated for it, we just chose not to do it with the 4 shots he was already getting.

  2. chopsuey

    hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts

    @Mrs. Pen: the honest truth? LOL
    I'm embarrassed to write it out here so I'll private message it on your wall. hahahaha.

  3. ShootingStar

    coconut / 8472 posts

    I absolutely will. I think when people choose not to vaccinate at all they're taking advantage of all the people who get vaccines and provide herd immunity. And that herd immunity will disappear if everyone just assumes all the other kids will get vaccinated and that they don't need to.

  4. mrs. wagon

    blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts

    @MrsCB: this. I was just asking Wagon Sr. about the public health concern. It's exciting to think that maybe in 10 years the chicken pox will be a thing of the past, as well as shingles!

  5. Weagle

    coconut / 8498 posts

    We do, but on a modified schedule.

  6. googly-eyes

    GOLD / pomelo / 5737 posts

    Yes, bc our peso recommends it, I believe the benefits outweigh the risks, and I believe it's socially responsible.

  7. Mrs. Cat in the Cradle

    GOLD / kiwi / 613 posts

    Yes. For all the health and social issues listed by previous posters.

  8. MrsTiz

    cantaloupe / 6800 posts

    I will absolutely, on time. @chopsuey119: I'm nosy, I gotta know! Lol

  9. oliviaoblivia

    pineapple / 12793 posts

    @Mrs. Pen: for one, because she hasn't had her full schedule yet and there is no way I'd risk her health.

    Two, because I think herd immunity is very important and have had family members need to rely on herd immunity for their own well being. I'm uncomfortable with a few parents making decisions that could hurt the weakest members of our society.

    Three, when I was in elementary school an unvaccinated student contracted the measles and infected our school with it. Another student (vaccinated) brought the germs home and infected her newborn brother who ended up in the NICU for weeks.

  10. Freckles

    honeydew / 7444 posts

    We do and on schedule. I don't really understand the delayed schedule as it seems more like something the parent is deciding based on discomfort as opposed to medical reasoning.

  11. lavender

    grapefruit / 4554 posts

    We do on schedule.

  12. Mrs. Cat in the Cradle

    GOLD / kiwi / 613 posts

    @MrsTiz: @chopsuey119: Ha, me too! I have to say vaccines are probably the only area of parenting where I'm completely stuck in my way!

  13. LittleFox

    kiwi / 673 posts

    @MrsCB: I totally agree with you.

    We vaccinate on the schedule recommended by the CDC. To the best of my knowledge, there is no well-supported reason not to vaccinate an otherwise healthy child.

  14. immabeetoo

    honeydew / 7687 posts

    ditto to what @Silva said so I'll quote it "We will vaccinate. I believe very strongly In it, not just for my child's health, but also because I believe we have an obligation to protect those who cannot tolerate vaccinations because of age, weakened immune systems, etc. "

  15. Mrs. Jacks

    blogger / pineapple / 12381 posts

    Because we are so lucky to have modern medicine that prevents countless deaths worldwide and because I'd be a very strange pediatrician if I didn't understand what the scientific literature definitively says!

  16. travelgirl1

    cantaloupe / 6630 posts

    @Mrs. Pen: That's a very good point! Mainly because she hasn't had her full schedule yet. She's only had her two-month shots so as far as I understand it, she's not fully protected yet. Plus I'm just insanely worried she might get something scary.

  17. pinkcupcake

    cantaloupe / 6751 posts

    Yes, I believe very strongly in it.

  18. Mrs. Pen

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts

    @travelgirl1: I guess I was referring mainly to when they're older... I guess I could never imagine telling my child they're not allowed to play with their friend "Ben" because he's unvaccinated, you know? And then that poor child for being ostracized! I totally respect a parent's decision to make an informed choice when there is so much conflicting information - as I am making an alternative choice too.

    @oliviaoblivia: oh my goodness what a scary situation! I couldn't even imagine..

  19. FarmWifeGina

    pear / 1571 posts

    Selectively and very delayed. Because no one has yet to convince that it's ok to shoot a tiny baby up with all those chemicals and toxins, never MIND so many at once. But it's such a hard thing to research, there is SO much conflicting research out there, I respect any parent's choice, particularly a well-educated one, regardless if it differs with mine.

  20. mrbee

    admin / wonderful grape / 20724 posts

    I believe strongly in vaccination. We took a chance that our kids could be injured or worse during vaccinations, but we did it b/c it was for the good of society at large.

    I would never knowingly have a family over who is unvaccinated by choice. If the family/child is not vaccinated for a medical condition, then I might make an exception.

  21. anbanan15

    grapefruit / 4681 posts

    We vaccinate and vaccinate on schedule! We also have a pedi that will not take you as a patient without vaccinating. Our pedi did converse with LO's allergist on a few vaccines but she gave her blessing for all of them. We did give the varicella by itself 30 days before the MMR because I'm allergic to the varicella vaccine and I wanted to know if LO was reacting it was to which vaccine and the MMR was one the pedi needed to confirm with the allergist, but everything was technically on schedule.

    @MrsCB: this is the one argument for not vaccinating that really gets under my skin. I cannot stand when someone says my child is vaccinated so their child is protected. It is like if they believe vaccines are so evil then my child's life has no value to them since I, in their minds, put my child at risk by vaccinating.

    @oliviaoblivia: I have these same thoughts

  22. Mrs Hedgehog

    pear / 1812 posts

    We absolutely will when LO is here.

  23. anbanan15

    grapefruit / 4681 posts

    @Silva: this. Well said! Couldn't agree more!

  24. travelgirl1

    cantaloupe / 6630 posts

    @Mrs. Pen: Yeah I do know what you mean, I was thinking more of when she was little (I have a hard time imagining her older at the moment). We had planned to take her to England last month and she would only have had her two-month jabs. I'd been weighing up whether to ask my inlaws whether our nieces and nephews had been vaccinated so we would avoid them but then I thought I probably didn't have the guts to do that... I don't know. But once she's older, like at school, I really wouldn't stop her playing with an unvaccinated kid.

  25. Arden

    honeydew / 7589 posts

    I believe in what is called "Mindful Vaccination". This means that I have individually researched each vaccine, and made a decision on each one based on my personal study weighing the benefit of each disease vs vaccine.

    We will be giving some vaccines on the typical schedule, delaying some, and forgoing a couple completely.

    I understand this is not a popular choice and many people strongly disagree with my decision, but it's something my husband and I did not choose lightly and we believe after many months of research that we have made the decision that is best for our child.

  26. Rainbow Sprinkles

    eggplant / 11287 posts

    @Arden: we are doing the same.

  27. FarmWifeGina

    pear / 1571 posts

    @Arden: This is similar to our process.

  28. Mrs. Pen

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts

    @Arden: love this.

  29. wheres_c

    pomelo / 5789 posts

    @Arden: The same here....we have researched, and discussed with our pediatrician and came up with a modified plan together. Some are on time, some are delayed, and some might be omitted.

  30. googly-eyes

    GOLD / pomelo / 5737 posts

    @Arden: This might warrant a different thread but I'm curious to know which ones you might omit and why? And also what you think about herd immunity. No debate intended..I completely believe you when you say you've done your research!

  31. Giraffe

    apricot / 274 posts

    We are vaccinating on schedule for all of the reasons that previous posters have mentioned, and also because there have been some scary pertussis outbreaks in our area recently and we want to make sure our son is as protected as he can be.

  32. prettylizy

    GOLD / papaya / 10206 posts

    I haven't read through all the responses, but we vaccinated according to the Health Canada Schedule because that is what I felt comfortable with.

  33. Arden

    honeydew / 7589 posts

    @googly-eyes: That's a good question, but I'm not sure I can give you the answer you were looking for here on hellobee.

    I'm always very careful (especially on public forums) not to tell people the vaccine schedule we've decided on because I think it's SO different for each person and their individual situation.
    I don't want anyone to take my schedule and say "that sounds good, I'll do that" without doing their own research - because the decisions I made were based on family history, our living situation (overseas travel, etc), and our beliefs.

    There are some vaccines I would not have chosen to give my child if we were staying in the USA, but because we travel and these particular diseases are prevalent in areas where we'll be living, I decided that in our case the benefit outweighed the risk.

    The vaccines we chose to forgo altogether were mostly because I believed the potential risk of the vaccine (% of negative reactions and the severity of those reactions) was greater than that of the disease (extremely rare, easily treated, low incidence of severe complications, etc).

    Some vaccines we've also chosen to "delay" because I don't want my child receiving multiple vaccinations on the same day. Very little research has been done into the effects of "double-barreled" vaccines, and I'm not comfortable with the potential for reaction. The simple solution is to just divide up the schedule and give them little by little instead of overwhelming my child's system with a cocktail of vaccines.

    The concept of "herd immunity" is something I'm not going to go into on this thread at the moment, because I have a feeling it will cause some arguments and I'm just heading to bed. I'll be happy to talk about it another day though!

  34. googly-eyes

    GOLD / pomelo / 5737 posts

    @Arden: Ah maybe another day then. I admit I tend to think, "don't they know how herd immunity works?" when I see some anti-vaccination things on fb, but I know most people (and I KNOW you do based on your posts on HB!) probably just have different beliefs. Anyway, I really appreciate your response. I know this topic can bring up some strong feelings.

  35. MrsSCB

    pomelo / 5257 posts

    @oliviaoblivia: +1000 on the herd immunity. A lot of people who don't vaccinate don't understand they are not only putting their kids at risk but other people's children as well. Many people rely on herd immunity due to vaccine allergies or illness, and the more we weaken herd immunity by not vaccinating healthy children, the more we put vulnerable people's lives at risk. This article is now almost four years old but it has really stuck with me. I just feel so bad for this poor mother: http://www.slate.com/articles/health_and_science/medical_examiner/2009/10/a_pox_on_you.html

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