I think that was what stressed me out most about picking out names for our girls. Kids can be so mean, and I didn't want to give them any fuel to target them.
I think that was what stressed me out most about picking out names for our girls. Kids can be so mean, and I didn't want to give them any fuel to target them.
nectarine / 2932 posts
Kind of?
One of the names were thinking of using for our LO is Patrick. One of my good friends from high school was named Patrick and he passed away in a car accident right before graduation. So I'm kind of nervous that people will think I have this unhealthy hangup about him if I name my child that? Like I'm clinging to him or something? I don't know how to explain it really. Everyone I've asked opinions on it seems to think I'm putting too much thought into it, though. So I probably need to just get over it!
cantaloupe / 6630 posts
Yes. There is a body part that sounds fairly similar to her name and one of the leaders at the playgroup we go to keeps calling her it, it's driving me nuts. She's not doing it on purpose but still. I worry that will happen more when she's older. But I still
her name!
pineapple / 12526 posts
Not really? She has a pretty classic name, so I might be impressed if they come up with something creative. haha
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
Yes and no. Yes cause I don't want people to make fun of her, so wanted something that wasn't super easy to make fun of. But no cause kids are always going to come up with something.
honeydew / 7811 posts
I didn't. Kids get picked on for anything and everything, so we chose a name we loved.
pineapple / 12566 posts
Sort of. In French, my son's first and last names together are very common king's names. So maybe one day if we go back to live in France they could taunt him for that.
pineapple / 12802 posts
I did a little. I didn't think we picked a make-fun-of type name, but people have already made nick names and we are big star wars fans and are ALWAYS asked if we named him in relation to star wars. Which we didn't.
grapefruit / 4649 posts
I worry about this, more about what adults will say to me though. We tend to like some less common names, a few are pretty out there and I hate people giving me blatantly negative feedback. I don't really worry about kids making fun if then though. I figure they can come up with some odd ways to make fun of people no matter what, plus I have been bouncing names off a friend's 7 year old and she helps me know when something is too odd.
bananas / 9899 posts
I think if kids want to make fun of each other, they find a way. I mean I try not to pick names that would basically be like printing a huge red target on my kid's forehead, but I try not to over stress every possible nickname a kid could make to tease her.
I have a pretty ordinary name (Kaitlin), but people used to make fun of my last name. How they twisted my last name was quite the stretch, I doubt my parents could have seen it coming (not that they could have controlled my last name anyway).
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
I picked two classic names so I haven't worried about it, but you never know. Kids are creative...and mean!
pineapple / 12234 posts
No...they have pretty ordinary names. Besides, mean kids are just going to use whatever awful name they can think of to hurt
which totally happened in preschool.
GOLD / grapefruit / 4555 posts
I think the only one who has to worry about that is our son. With just his first name, it's not so bad but pair it with his middle name and suddenly you have a lot of people thinking of the famous orator for American independence. Of course we intentionally named him after him but still... I hope he isn't teased too horrifically in middle school and high school...
cantaloupe / 6669 posts
@mrbee: It has?
Which kid? I love your kids' names!
I am worried that people will tell LO her name is a "dog name" because a lot of people have pets with her name.
coconut / 8234 posts
Kind of. But in the end I don't think it matters. If it's not her name, it will be something else. Kids will find anything to pick on.
pomelo / 5258 posts
My LO's name rhymes with Dora, so there's that. My name was turned into something my parents never could have thought of based on a typo in a church bulletin.
grapefruit / 4669 posts
Definitely a concern when we pick baby names. I know people can make fun of just about anything but I didn't want to choose an obvious target. My first and last names got made fun of a LOT growing up (not that my parents could have predicted that, it was pop culture's fault) so maybe that's why. Like...I really love the name Daria, but know that little boys would call her diarrhea. Or I love the name Annaleigh, but anything with "anal" in it is out. I try to think of ways to make fun of baby names beforehand.
pomegranate / 3759 posts
It crossed our minds and tried to think of every possible bad nickname they could get but in the end, it didn't really matter.
pineapple / 12526 posts
@.twist.: I wouldnt even make that connection with your LOs name....
honeydew / 7091 posts
Not really. My name is Katie - you would think that name was safe, but kids found a way to tease me about it!!
I wouldn't pick a super EASY name to make fun of, but other than that I don't put too much thought into it.
pomegranate / 3980 posts
No, not really anyways. I didn't want to pick an obviously pickable name but at the end of the day if the worst thing someone can say about them is they have a weird/funny name then I think they're doing pretty good!
papaya / 10343 posts
Never worried about it. We were only considering pretty common names though
apricot / 274 posts
We tried to think of anything we could before settling on a name. I really hope we didn't miss something. I do believe kids will come up with a way to make fun if they want, but my philosophy was to not make it easy for them.
apricot / 313 posts
We knew our DD name was not common, but felt pretty confident that she would be proud of it and that would be shown through her confidence. We we're hounded by family to tell them, but we refused until she was born. Once she was here my MIL and FIL were told only for us to get a not so pleasant look from them. A week later my FIL randomly says to my DH out of the blue that They (MIL and him) have decided to call her by a different name because its more common, and she can just have a nic- name instead.
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
A little bit, but I figured kids can make fun of every name if they are creative enough, so I just went with what we loved and made sure there wasn't something too "humorous" about it. That's why I won't do a weird spelling, because I remember friends in school making fun of Tiffani with a n "I" instead of a "y" so stupid but I remember it.
nectarine / 2280 posts
@daniellemybelle: my little has what some refer to as a per's name.
@MamaPhoenix: my mom was like that and started off trying to call her by other names. She got over it.
I hope she'll be confident in her name. Kids will find anything to pick on.
pear / 1846 posts
@MamaPhoenix: what?! How can you just decide to call a kid by something that is not their name? Do they still do it?
apricot / 313 posts
@Snowdrop: nope, my Dh put an end to that right quick. We were pretty shocked. They are extremely old school, and her name was just too much for them to handle I guess. There was a big falling out not long after that and they haven't been in her life.
persimmon / 1343 posts
My DD's name is Luna, most people just comment that they love the name or tell me it's "different". I did worry a little that people would call her "lunatic" or "looney" but I just hope she has thicker skin than to get upset by that *fingers crossed*
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
No because I don't see how much making fun of you can do with Truett. We call him Tru sometimes...DH says they'll call him tru and false. I said that's just silly.
Maybe "Do it Truett" but that's not so bad.
Kids can be creative though!
apricot / 313 posts
@rahlyrah: Her name IS Phoenix, and they wanted to change it to Nikki. I was named Amanda when I was born, but called Mandy from the first day home. The only people who called me Amanda was like Dr's, police, anything legal yada yada yada. I always felt like this Amanda was some totally different person. It's not even like mom called me both names often. I ran into issues when I got older applying for loans because I refused to use my Birth name. Yes I know I can legally change it now, but its just such a hassle. So I was pretty adamant that our children where going to be called whatever their actual name was. So when FIL wanted to nic name my kid I was livid.
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