DH & I are pretty decided and hopeful for a #3 eventually. But I just realized this morning, will having 3 kids mean that there's often a 3rd wheel feeling for one of them? What has you experience been as a parent or a child?

FWIW, we have a boy and a girl, so one gender would be "alone." Also, LO1 & LO2 have a 2 year age gap, but we're thinking a 3 year age gap minimum for LO3 (though sometimes I fantasize about bumping up our timeline!) I worry that the bigger gap could create more of the 3rd wheel feeling?